• AItoothbrush@lemmy.zipEnglish
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    5 months ago

    Lol no thats not why they get offended. If you tell a cis person “they are trans” that means they look like the other gender. Its the same as misgendering a trans person but with a few extra steps. Also maybe they are attacking you because this is harassment…

    • SeattleRain@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      But why would that offend if you constantly tell people there’s no difference tran women and cis women. If you told a trans person you didn’t believe they were trans they would probably take it as a compliment.

      • Lime66@lemmy.world
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        5 months ago

        Trans people don’t tend to take that as a compliment since it implies trans people don’t usually pass and can be easily clocked most of the time

  • mindbleach@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    That’s just meta-misgendering and talking over women. No kidding they treat you like an asshole. That’s not a contradiction; you’re just being an asshole.

  • Taleya@aussie.zone
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    5 months ago

    Eh, i cackled. If someone tried that on me there’d be zero personal offence because i don’t see being trans as bad.

    i’d probably get a bit pissy at the thought you can ‘clock’ a trans person, or because telling a trans person they’re ‘passing’ is very very problematic, but at someone thinking i’m trans? Yeah that’s not an insult to me.