I swear I’m not Jessica
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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•what's wrong with seeking social affirmation? (◡ ω ◡)English
4·58 分钟前Such a good girl!
being trans gives a passive coolness buff so now you’re only slightly uncool
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•post a rule of a folder day. DAY 3 [OC, brainmade]English
10·4 小时前I will say, this seems like a recipe for someone accidentally leaking sensitive info. I advise extreme caution; stuff on lemmy often can’t be permanently deleted.
With that said, here is how I sort my reaction memes on my phone. It’s a deeply flawed mess, but it works well enough for now:

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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•It's that time again!English
8·4 小时前INTOXICATION?! YAAYYYY!!!
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Goodbye privilege, hello transmisogynyEnglish
2·10 小时前I don’t speak Spanish, but Spain is definitely on my short list of countries to flee to. Getting into the EU would be ideal, as one government going fash wouldn’t make everywhere fash. I could always move again if need be, and my gf would love to be able to travel.
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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Happens all the timeEnglish
5·10 小时前They are just memes, but other people make it a bigger thing than it needs to be. A number of my recent posts in 196 received way more attention and scrutiny than I expected. I never meant the memes to be that deep, but that wasn’t something I could control
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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🌙irlEnglish
1·10 小时前It’s not that bad, just inconvenient. I do appreciate how it’s given me a unique perspective on many things and helped me figure out things I wouldn’t have otherwise. However, on top of the bigotry that’s only gotten worse since I came out, I also needed to put in a lot of effort to reach the baseline mood that others have by default. The years I spent discovering and figuring out how to deal with my dysphoria severely impacted my academic career. I probably lost half a decade as a result, and most of it was unavoidable, as I really couldn’t have figured things out more quickly.
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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Happens all the timeEnglish
7·10 小时前Also, even feminine perspective memes about men, masc presenting people, or male/female gender relations can kinda open up a can of worms. While such memes will always be allowed, they do often attract attention from the broader fediverse. Whenever a point is made about men, there are always several different comments saying “not all men,” and while that is often a technically valid point, it’s also rarely the intention of the meme.
Basically, this post had a number of things that gave me pause, but I wouldn’t remove it. I do like your comics generally and hope you keep posting here.
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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Happens all the timeEnglish
3·11 小时前I’ll let you make the final decision. It’s hard to tell who the character we’re supposed to emphasize with is
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Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Happens all the timeEnglish
16·11 小时前I figure this was supposed to just be gay, but I can’t help seeing the second one as selfcest
Edit: Also, I’m not sure this is the right community for this comic. This feels more like a masc perspective post than a fem perspective one, and that isn’t what this place is about. Femcelmemes isn’t for memes about feminine people, but for memes by feminine people. This doesn’t really feel like that
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Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Goodbye privilege, hello transmisogynyEnglish
3·11 小时前I grew up a racial minority, so I never really had full privilege. I was kept safe from more active discrimination, but I still knew that I wouldn’t have the same leeway that white people did. That said, being at the intersection of trans-woman-hispanic in today’s political climate has been a scary. If I was ever targeted for my race, being a trans woman would make things more serious.
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Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Goodbye privilege, hello transmisogynyEnglish
12·11 小时前Even more true if you weren’t a racial minority either. It’s delusional to think that anyone would give up that much privilege for clout
as you haj
as i want you to :3
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Yuri memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•what did i do to deserve this?! 😔English
4·11 小时前You’re welcome, and also:

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Yuri memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•what did i do to deserve this?! 😔English
5·13 小时前The girl at the bottom of the panel tried to seduce (and in the processes sexually harassed) the black haired girl to get back at the girl with pigtails who was friends with her. This made the blonde girl (a ghost) jealous which inadvertently caused long term collateral damage to another girl and basically became a huge mess.
It’s a long story that can’t be easily explained without reading it. The manga has a similar setup to Mieruko-chan, but it’s actually yuri rather than just bait. It has a unique blend of tragedy, comedy, slice of life, mystery, horror, and yuri romance that I’ve never experienced anywhere else. Mietemasu yo! Aizawa-san is peak and I highly recommend it.
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPMto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•y'all would probably be disappointed by irl me. i really am a total introvertEnglish
6·16 小时前That would help me. I am quite shy 🥺
TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPMto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•y'all would probably be disappointed by irl me. i really am a total introvertEnglish
9·16 小时前Probably not. Some people who hang out here are extroverts






It’s only 20 items, which is less than most of the other folders. I might rename it to misc (all the actual “to sort” are buried in my download folder)