I’m a reddit refugee, I have ADHD, I’m married with kids, and I’m mainly interested in PC gaming.

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  • I’ve felt a lot of what you’re feeling before and it sucks, I’m sorry that’s happening. One thing that may help is to decide a minimum number of nights you want for yourself per week, then talk about it with your wife. My wife is similar where she also plans all the things and generally wants me to spend time with her each night. But if I tell her, “I’m taking Wednesday nights and Friday nights for myself,” she’ll understand and respect it. Doing this also helps me actually relax during that time because if I establish that I’m supposed to be doing this, then I don’t have guilt that I’m supposed to be with her instead (this may not apply to you though). It doesn’t sound to me like divorce is the next logical step for you. Tweaking expectations and schedules may alleviate some of what you’re feeling.









  • This is actually true. I went to an expensive Christian private school (it was awful) where I became friends with his granddaughter. According to her, he thought Chuck Norris jokes were hilarious. One time, he even showed up for grandparents’ day and he handed out little baseball card-like signed pictures of himself. He was also much shorter than I expected.