I know that like Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, and Sam from LoTR are all considered green flags if they are considered role models.

But are there any unique role models you have or have seen others have that you consider a green flag?

  • Wolf Link 🐺
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    479 months ago

    Morticia and Gomez Addams.

    They’re unapologetically weird, fiercely in love with each other, they support and love their children unconditionally, they’re brutally honest with each other, including openly showing affection without giving a damn about what others may think of them. They’re one of the best (fictional) examples of caring parents and lovers, and I will die on that hill.

    • @A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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      99 months ago

      Anjelica Houston and Raul Julia.

      There will never be a more iconic Morticia and Gomez.

      They are my absolute relationship goal. I want to find a partner that embraces my weird and loves it whole hearted and unashamedly, and I theirs.

      Sadly, as I get older, I realize its never gonna happen.

    • I have this vague memory of an interview where this was being talked about and how showing them as kind, loving people with real emotions was somewhat controversial. If anyone knows what I am talking about please chime in.