Oh dear good lord.
The spear ( literally) version of La Blue Girls clitoris weapons.
Listen, I am sex positive and that’s why this kind of thing deeply bothers me.
That’s why I really don’t like it when people joke about paladin smiting the undead by coming in them and various things.
Sex should be positive!
That being said, with the consent of everybody at the table pretty much everything is OK even though I wouldn’t do it ever.
With some exceptions.
In any case, thank you so much. I haven’t read this. I’ve heard of it and been horrified.
I actually own a copy of the book of erotic fantasy that I inherited from a friend and it is sometimes silly, but absolutely 100% not this book and thank God.
I frequently see “sex positive” (like many other terms) being used by people who either don’t actually know what it means or just don’t care to defend juvenile stupid shit. Like almost everything NSFW that was posted on r/dndmemes as part of the protest effort against the API changes. Yes, I supported doing it as a protest measure, but any attempt to act like 99% of the content involved was anything resembling intelligent and independently worthy of being considered “art” beyond the strictest definition of the word was obvious bullshit. No, your image of a goblin being repeatedly raped as punishment for picking your pockets is nothing but base fetish porn, and describing your character defeating enemies by growing their dong to be a forty foot long spear and fucking them in half is, at best juvenile jackassery and maybe funny exactly once for about ten seconds. Any attempt to suggest either is legitimate and healthy entertainment worthy of repitition, emulation, and propagation is an indication that you are either twelve years old, inclined to be a sex offender, or possibly both.
Hello!
This is a really interesting comment, but I’m not entirely certain what it was about in regards to my comment.
I never said anything about being cool with Rape Memes and didn’t even bring up the protest. I was very upset at a lot of the non-consensual stuff especially the women being chained in bathrooms blindfolded that I saw three different art in three different memes.
And you’re making a really interesting point about things that should be emulated.
That’s not my job to tell people how to live their life outside of ethical constraints, which I’m totally OK with telling people to live in.
If people wanna have people piss on them in the Dudgeons and dragons game I’m OK with that. I just don’t like it…
“My personal working definition of ‘sex positivity’ is operating around the topics of human sexuality, health, and pleasure with respect and without shame or stigma. This includes gender identity, orientation, sex education, nudity, relationship styles, body positivity, safer sex, reproductive equity, and much more,” says Goody Howard, a resident sex educator for sexual hygiene and body care company Royal.
“Historically, it was common for sex to be viewed from a moralistic (based in sin) or medicalized (based in sickness or disease) framework. Through these lenses, otherwise natural and healthy sexual desires and behaviors are something to be repressed, controlled, or cured,” explains sociologist and certified sexologist Sarah Melancon, PhD with The Sex Toy Collective.
So, for instance, I’m not into BDSM water sports or lots of things.
One of those things that I’m not into is erotic role-play at least I’ve never tried it.
Because I’m not into those things doesn’t mean they’re bad.
People engage in erotic role-playing sessions all the time there’s even rules for it.
We’re talking about fiction.
Now, when you are saying that non-safer works memes are illigimate entertainment. I have to disagree with you.
And even though I would absolutely never want to play with any of the Tokyo black material, if I knew people who were doing that, and everybody was fine with it, and they were using safety tools, and practice the session 0 then I would have no objections to them.
My friend, you’re making a lot of baseless accusations and throwing around a lot of logical fallacies.
Here I’m going to disprove your argument forever. I’m in my 40s and I’m not a sex offender and I disagreed with you.
I think it is legitimate to get adult consensual entertainment out of anything ethical.
I would like to formally ask you not to imply that people who disagreed with you are sex offenders because it’s rude and inaccurate.
I’m not saying that anything to do with sexual content is juvenile or even “deviant.” Everybody has their kinks and to each their own, as long as it doesn’t harm others.
I’m saying that nonstop “look it the titties and dicks lololol” is only amusing for a short time and not as a constant stream unless the viewers are hormonal adolescents or are full adults with the mindset and immaturity of adolescents. And rape focused content or killing things with one’s genitals is the kind of thing that directly appeals to people with an unhealthy sexual fixation and a desire to harm others, which is what makes sex offenders. Or incels, who are just as bad for different but often adjacent reasons.
OK. Thank you so much for explaining. I so much better understand where you’re coming from. I still don’t entirely agree, but I agree much more!
The thing is, well, I don’t like the rape and murder with genitals. I’m kind of looking at some of it as the equivalent of a BDSM scene where somebody gets raped, but in real life it’s totally consensual there, safe words, orange slices and water for everybody.
But I totally get where you’re coming from killing somebody with their dick is very offensive to be, and that’s why I specifically mentioned a paladin that killed a lich with their penis, specifically with their cum.
And the thing is while I don’t there are many many adults that do regular erotic, role-play.
I reviewed this book with a free copy from the publisher.
But listen, thank you so much again for elaborating on what you were saying. I’m autistic and I often find it difficult to understand nuance in others speach especially in text.
It’s a common trait, but autistic people are often unable to tell the difference between lies in truth, or even humor in satire. It’s because we usually say what we mean and mean what we say. And we find it difficult to deal with the world that doesn’t usually do that.
To be totally honest, I wasn’t entirely certain you weren’t coming for me personally.
I now understand better what you were saying, and thank you so much again.
Please check out a meme that I just did. I would love to hear your opinion.
![Man, Black Tokyo was wild [OC]](https://ttrpg.network/pictrs/image/6bc81766-fdb2-429f-a635-31897015e5d7.png){kind=link}
Oh dear good lord. The spear ( literally) version of La Blue Girls clitoris weapons.
Listen, I am sex positive and that’s why this kind of thing deeply bothers me.
That’s why I really don’t like it when people joke about paladin smiting the undead by coming in them and various things.
Sex should be positive!
That being said, with the consent of everybody at the table pretty much everything is OK even though I wouldn’t do it ever.
With some exceptions.
In any case, thank you so much. I haven’t read this. I’ve heard of it and been horrified.
I actually own a copy of the book of erotic fantasy that I inherited from a friend and it is sometimes silly, but absolutely 100% not this book and thank God.
That sounds just like Fatal honestly.
Yeah, Black Tokyo is explicitly designed to emulate horror hentai, and is not nearly as friendly as the Book of Erotic Fantasy.
I frequently see “sex positive” (like many other terms) being used by people who either don’t actually know what it means or just don’t care to defend juvenile stupid shit. Like almost everything NSFW that was posted on r/dndmemes as part of the protest effort against the API changes. Yes, I supported doing it as a protest measure, but any attempt to act like 99% of the content involved was anything resembling intelligent and independently worthy of being considered “art” beyond the strictest definition of the word was obvious bullshit. No, your image of a goblin being repeatedly raped as punishment for picking your pockets is nothing but base fetish porn, and describing your character defeating enemies by growing their dong to be a forty foot long spear and fucking them in half is, at best juvenile jackassery and maybe funny exactly once for about ten seconds. Any attempt to suggest either is legitimate and healthy entertainment worthy of repitition, emulation, and propagation is an indication that you are either twelve years old, inclined to be a sex offender, or possibly both.
Hello! This is a really interesting comment, but I’m not entirely certain what it was about in regards to my comment.
I never said anything about being cool with Rape Memes and didn’t even bring up the protest. I was very upset at a lot of the non-consensual stuff especially the women being chained in bathrooms blindfolded that I saw three different art in three different memes.
And you’re making a really interesting point about things that should be emulated.
That’s not my job to tell people how to live their life outside of ethical constraints, which I’m totally OK with telling people to live in.
If people wanna have people piss on them in the Dudgeons and dragons game I’m OK with that. I just don’t like it…
I’m going to define sex positivity.
https://psychcentral.com/health/sex-positivity-meaning
“My personal working definition of ‘sex positivity’ is operating around the topics of human sexuality, health, and pleasure with respect and without shame or stigma. This includes gender identity, orientation, sex education, nudity, relationship styles, body positivity, safer sex, reproductive equity, and much more,” says Goody Howard, a resident sex educator for sexual hygiene and body care company Royal.
“Historically, it was common for sex to be viewed from a moralistic (based in sin) or medicalized (based in sickness or disease) framework. Through these lenses, otherwise natural and healthy sexual desires and behaviors are something to be repressed, controlled, or cured,” explains sociologist and certified sexologist Sarah Melancon, PhD with The Sex Toy Collective.
So, for instance, I’m not into BDSM water sports or lots of things.
One of those things that I’m not into is erotic role-play at least I’ve never tried it.
Because I’m not into those things doesn’t mean they’re bad.
People engage in erotic role-playing sessions all the time there’s even rules for it.
We’re talking about fiction.
Now, when you are saying that non-safer works memes are illigimate entertainment. I have to disagree with you.
And even though I would absolutely never want to play with any of the Tokyo black material, if I knew people who were doing that, and everybody was fine with it, and they were using safety tools, and practice the session 0 then I would have no objections to them.
My friend, you’re making a lot of baseless accusations and throwing around a lot of logical fallacies.
Here I’m going to disprove your argument forever. I’m in my 40s and I’m not a sex offender and I disagreed with you.
I think it is legitimate to get adult consensual entertainment out of anything ethical.
I would like to formally ask you not to imply that people who disagreed with you are sex offenders because it’s rude and inaccurate.
Hope you’re having a good day!
I’m not saying that anything to do with sexual content is juvenile or even “deviant.” Everybody has their kinks and to each their own, as long as it doesn’t harm others.
I’m saying that nonstop “look it the titties and dicks lololol” is only amusing for a short time and not as a constant stream unless the viewers are hormonal adolescents or are full adults with the mindset and immaturity of adolescents. And rape focused content or killing things with one’s genitals is the kind of thing that directly appeals to people with an unhealthy sexual fixation and a desire to harm others, which is what makes sex offenders. Or incels, who are just as bad for different but often adjacent reasons.
OK. Thank you so much for explaining. I so much better understand where you’re coming from. I still don’t entirely agree, but I agree much more!
The thing is, well, I don’t like the rape and murder with genitals. I’m kind of looking at some of it as the equivalent of a BDSM scene where somebody gets raped, but in real life it’s totally consensual there, safe words, orange slices and water for everybody.
But I totally get where you’re coming from killing somebody with their dick is very offensive to be, and that’s why I specifically mentioned a paladin that killed a lich with their penis, specifically with their cum.
And the thing is while I don’t there are many many adults that do regular erotic, role-play.
I reviewed this book with a free copy from the publisher.
https://www.drivethrurpg.com/m/product/340447
But listen, thank you so much again for elaborating on what you were saying. I’m autistic and I often find it difficult to understand nuance in others speach especially in text.
It’s a common trait, but autistic people are often unable to tell the difference between lies in truth, or even humor in satire. It’s because we usually say what we mean and mean what we say. And we find it difficult to deal with the world that doesn’t usually do that.
To be totally honest, I wasn’t entirely certain you weren’t coming for me personally.
I now understand better what you were saying, and thank you so much again.
Please check out a meme that I just did. I would love to hear your opinion.
https://ttrpg.network/post/197550