I can’t be the only one who absolutely hates the idea of a particle having two states at once, right? Is it just a personal thing or is it tied somehow to the fact that autistic people generally have more binary thinking?
Forgive me if it’s a stupid question. I’m still trying to figure out how this all works and whether I’m autistic or not.
This is the observer effect, which is certainly not unique to quantum mechanics.
That analogy is suggestive of hidden variables. Hidden variables theories are severely constrained by observed violations of Bell’s inequality. Without loopholes like non-locality, there cannot be a “hidden” definite value underlying a superposition state.