Can we kiss now?

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        1 year ago

        I think "gay/straight " describe more than 90% of people. It is useful. What is not useful is making politics out of this, including blaming the other side for being immoral, and “identity politics”.

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          1 year ago

          All I’m saying is that describing attraction based on appearance can often make things much easier than stricly basing it on sex or gender identity.

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              1 year ago

              Oh yeah, absolutely. And that’s what I mean by saying sexuality is complex, people can have such a wild mix of preferences.

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                1 year ago

                So then you agree that it is not gay for a woman to like girlcock (maybe it is not straight either, but importantly it is not gay). Checkmate returned :)