I can’t find a link for it but I remember an article where they got a dishevelled, homeless looking man to go into restaurants and ask for leftover food. He was rudely turned away every time. Then they got a man dressed in a smart, expensive business suit to go into the same restaurants and ask for free food (saying he’d lost his job/forgotten his credit card or whatever). He was treated politely and given free food every time.
The link above is to a youtube video, in which an able bodied woman asks for help zipping up her dress and people help her. But when a disabled woman asks for help doing up her buttons, people refuse.
You see the same thing with millionaire celebrities being given free things while poor people are refused the basics of life.
Why is human society like this?
I have two siblings. My parents offered to buy each of us something, up to a maximum. I’m chronically single and a recovering addict (sober for at this point about three or four years iirc); both my siblings are successful and partnered up in dual income households. When I decided what I wanted - at about 2/3 the value they offered and deliberately BELOW the max, my very charming mother said “well you can pay the balance…”. She wanted to only offer half as much to me, because of course my siblings are both coupled up. Never mind that they’re both financially stable and I haven’t been in years due to my health issues. Honestly despise that woman.