• DeceasedPassenger@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    In my experience people receive it better when I preface the “How long” with a “Just curious,” or some such thereof. Results may vary.

    • Caveman@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I go with “Do you know roughly how long this will take? 5m, half hour, hour, three hours?”

      The answer will be either higher or lower end answer so you can get a ballpark estimate.

    • socsa@piefed.social
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      4 days ago

      The trick is to make up a deadline. "I need to get home to swap the Dilithium crystal in my lizard tank, do you think this will take longer than an hour?

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          4 days ago

          What if I don’t know how long it will take? Trying to figure that out is a quite a bit for me, I have to stop and process what I already completed, what’s going on now, and what is left to do. A lot of these commenters are speaking as if the knowledge is being withheld from them, not as though they’re making an inquiry of someone who is already working on getting the job done and didn’t start with some previously defined end-time that they’re winding down to.

    • Val@anarchist.nexus
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      4 days ago

      Go full robot: “Estimated timescale for the completion of this task?”. I doubt they’ll get annoyed at that, might just find it funny, or weird. no, definitely wierd.