2025-22-08: Due to a (suspected .ml) troll spamming the comment section, you’ll now need to sort the comments by “Top” to see the actual comments from users on this post.
Good job everyone blocking and boycotting .ml! It’s having an effect, users are noticing and MAUs on their comms are falling!
And for anyone asking “Why are we boycotting/blocking lemmy.ml?” Here’s a quick recap:
Lemmy.ml is an instance run by admins who are hardcore tankies and will enforce their ideology on their instance through various means from allowing (and pushing it themselves) propaganda (Such as Russia being justified in some way to invade Ukraine) and known propaganda outlets (Like RT) to removing content on their instance critical of their favored authoritarian regimes such as Russia or China and even banning users for such speech or speech critical of them if it’s off their instance (Just like the Reddit mods of ol!).
If it was just some random instance it would have been defederated from long ago like the rest of the “Tankie Triad” (Hexbear and Lemmygrad), but they’ve positioned lemmy.ml as the “flagship” instance and abused that position and influence to become large enough to keep other instances from defederating from them.
Which I believe is harmful to the Lemmy-verse’s overall growth and outside reputation. I have seen it come up before on Reddit threads (and other testimonials from people who came back and tried it again) that “They tried Lemmy but it was a bunch of tankies and went back to Reddit”
I don’t know about you, but I’d prefer Lemmy to not end up with the reputation for being "Tankie Central " or even worse “Voat 2.0”.
So if you haven’t joined the boycott yet, join today and help us foster a better healthier Lemmy-verse!
You can take a look around here on !meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works for documentation of it or checkout this list of curated documentation
Noteworthy Selection
Full collection list at the end
Dessalines - Head .ml admin - Head Lemmy Dev
“Slava Ukraini” is considered a “Fascist slogan” - https://lemmy.world/post/36065538
“NK is actually good, and anything counter to that is Western LIES” - https://lemmy.world/post/31595035
“The BBC is not a credible news source” - https://lemmy.world/post/35824465
Showing support for Ukraine on .ml is worthy of a site ban - https://lemmy.world/post/32775563
Open declaration of support for Russia - https://lemmy.world/post/27352415
"Don’t worry guys, the Uyghur Genocide was REALLY just birth control! - https://lemmy.world/post/30580167
Censoring criticism of China while allowing fellow “in-crowd” user “concentration camps were just reeducation camps and weren’t that bad” misinfo to remain - https://lemmy.world/post/26985447
Censoring when users call out propaganda - https://lemmy.world/post/32776038 | https://lemmy.world/post/33416433 | https://lemmy.world/post/34051329 | https://lemmy.world/post/35919522
Discussing winnie the pooh and/or the negatives of china is a 30 day ban - https://lemmy.world/post/35374967
Davel - .ml admin
Spreading anti-ukraine Russian propaganda - https://lemmy.world/post/34655572
General negative sentiment to other instances who haven’t “seen the way” yet - https://lemmy.world/post/27426510
“See! nobody died IN Tiananmen Square, just AROUND it, so it doesn’t count!!” - https://lemmy.world/post/30673342
Response to a valid report of “NK is actually good” as propaganda/misinfo https://lemmy.world/post/32627834
Removal of a credible article that was on the Uyghur genocide - https://lemmy.world/post/33205310
It’s totally fine when Russia kills woman and children, war is war after all - https://lemmy.world/post/33224299
Nutomic - 2nd in command Lemmy Dev
Their continued transphobia - https://lemmy.world/post/29222558
General Tankie user behaviour
“Propaganda is good actually” - https://lemmy.world/post/36162233
“The China censorship tool isnt actually censorship! And if it is, it’s actually a good thing a state has that much power!” https://lemmy.world/post/30010789
Rooting for Russia in the Russia-Ukraine war https://lemmy.world/post/29274763
Spreading Russia talking points like the Ukraine invasion just being a “negotiating tactic” https://lemmy.world/post/27012640
Biden is worse than Trump - https://lemmy.world/post/33631617
Uyghur Genocide denialism - https://lemmy.world/post/33873969
Full Collection
Evidence of bans, censorship and bias to push their 'ideology'
https://lemmy.world/post/34395059
https://lemmy.world/post/32720369
https://lemmy.world/post/32298242
https://lemmy.world/post/32471440
https://lemmy.world/post/35919522
https://lemmy.world/post/32292143
https://lemmy.world/post/35254858
https://lemmy.world/post/32222856
https://lemmy.world/post/32426343
https://lemmy.world/post/32058315
https://lemmy.world/post/35919814
https://lemmy.world/post/32775892
https://lemmy.world/post/33554899
https://lemmy.world/post/33194656
https://lemmy.world/post/34502019
https://lemmy.world/post/34502777
https://lemmy.world/post/34503244
https://lemmy.world/post/35919218
https://lemmy.world/post/36120253
https://lemmy.world/post/36120386
https://lemmy.world/post/32825174
https://lemmy.world/post/32426884
https://lemmy.world/post/32191006
https://lemmy.world/post/32720652
https://lemmy.world/post/32676095
https://lemmy.world/post/32298242
https://lemmy.world/post/32292143
https://lemmy.world/post/32221990
https://lemmy.world/post/32222278
https://lemmy.world/post/32222991
https://lemmy.world/post/32223697
https://lemmy.world/post/32224698
https://lemmy.world/post/32425984
https://lemmy.world/post/31569892
https://lemmy.world/post/31368129
https://lemmy.world/post/31329952
https://lemmy.world/post/31596159
https://lemmy.world/post/30665418
https://lemmy.world/post/30876228
https://lemmy.world/post/31090903
https://lemmy.world/post/31329952
https://lemmy.world/post/31368129
https://lemmy.world/post/29490804
https://lemmy.world/post/29507466
https://lemmy.world/post/29878102
https://lemmy.world/post/29980157
https://lemmy.world/post/28480760
https://lemmy.world/post/28481615
https://lemmy.world/post/28482147
https://lemmy.world/post/28480936
https://lemmy.world/post/28482273
https://lemmy.world/post/28481272
https://lemmy.world/post/28481064
https://lemmy.world/post/27674360
https://lemmy.world/post/27674117
https://lemmy.world/post/27673934
https://lemmy.world/post/27673724
https://lemmy.world/post/27577337
https://lemmy.world/post/27378634
https://lemmy.world/post/27346630
https://lemmy.world/post/27341283
https://lemmy.world/post/27288224
https://lemmy.world/post/27156418
Allowing known propaganda outlets, altered headlines and general misinfo tactics
https://lemmy.world/post/32764202
https://lemmy.world/post/32323822
https://lemmy.world/post/32283425
https://lemmy.world/post/32289824
https://lemmy.world/post/32337368
https://lemmy.world/post/30843744
https://lemmy.world/post/28275465
https://lemmy.world/post/27428838
https://lemmy.world/post/27416097
Update 6/1/2025 - adding additional links since original post
Update 6/14/2025 - adding additional links since last edit
Update 6/19/2025 - adding additional links since last edit
Update 6/30/2025 - adding additional links since last edit
Update 7/03/2025 - adding additional links since last edit/formatting changes
Update 7/09/2025 - adding additional links since last edit
Update 8/13/2025 - adding additional links since last edit/formatting changes
Update 9/20/2025 - adding additional links since last edit


Just isn’t federated with many communities. Unless I have weird settings. I even see posts from certain communities, just not comments. Again, not a fault of hexbear, I’m the issue here. As much as I sometimes hate it, I thrive off toxicity. I’m still finding my home on lemmy. Someone in this post said, that people adjust their personality based on whatever gets most upvotes in each reddit community. And it’s hard to find the right one here. Hexbear is a community, and unless you find a home in any of the sticky posts, you’re outta luck. Those get 100s of comments, other posts are lucky to get 5.
You’re right that HB isn’t widely federated, but that’s mostly not HB’s choice. There are a handful of instances that HB defedded from because inter-instance conflict got really bad, but for the most part it’s actually that they blocked us, sometimes pre-emptively, and now HB is on most of the blocklists that get passed around as a recommendation for new instances.
Granted, there are several instances that we definitely would have blocked eventually had they not blocked us immediately, but I don’t think that’s true of the vast majority of instances.
I don’t look at the megas almost ever, for what it’s worth. I just look at the front page, where tbf I think the norm is more like 10 - 20 comments usually.
Yeah, I keep hearing that there was some conflict struggle session. I do think people here have a good corner of the internet for themselves, I just require disagreement I guess.
Most of the “struggle session” stuff refers to intra-instance fighting rather than inter-instance fighting, though there were a couple (especially with the nominally leftist trans-positive spaces) where it became mainly an internal issue because some of our userbase had a lot of affection for the instance and even the admins but others absolutely hated them (with the attitude that they were doing a disservice to their communities).
Why? I’m not asking because there is no good answer, but because I think the answer one gives is important for figuring out what to do about it. It’s also worth considering if you feel like discussions on science are too restrictive if the views of flat earthers or young Earth creationists don’t have much representation. What does that mean for the initial question?
Besides the standard HB line that we do, in fact, have a lot of disagreement (e.g. I view China and Vietnam as revisionist and the DPRK as not-even-revisionist and I am fine expressing these views), I’ve been thinking a lot about the general premise of sentiments that are similar to this. Let me be clear that I’m not assigning the sentiment to you, but I view it as adjacent and therefore worth mentioning.
You might have seen a few weeks ago there was a heavily-populated post about a lib anarchist decrying class analysis before concluding their screed with a statement along the lines of: “Also, many, many anarchists disagree with me and that’s a wonderful thing about anarchism.” For the sake of saving me a little bit of writing, here was my response to that part of their statement:
Again, you definitely didn’t say what they did, it’s just my most convenient frame of reference for this genre of issue.
Perhaps my view is distorted because a space where I strongly agree with nearly all of what people say simply doesn’t exist to my knowledge, and I don’t view myself as having an island to stand on to be out of the sea of liberalism and reaction that I constantly encounter in my daily life. Hexbear is more like a sand bar to me, where I’m still stuck in the water but at least I can stand. I could never blame someone for disliking it (I frequently dislike it myself), but I do have an interest in understanding how things could be better from your perspective.
Yeah, I don’t see a point of disagreement on science, or math. I guess it’s more on political/moral views. As far as why, I don’t know, I guess I’ve just always been that way. I don’t see anyone past a line, or not worth changing their mind on. One of, if not the favorite movie of mine is American History X, and that Ted Talk where a black guy befriends a Grand Wizared of the KKK, are stories that speak to me. I get people having their whole lives revolving around conflict, and having a walled off corner of the internet like hexbear where they can unwind is helpful though. To me, even the worst people are worth saving, and if I can’t do it, I’d rather learn from someone who can. Now with all that in mind, I think this post itself isn’t in good faith and it’s not actually someone’s opinion, but someone’s job.
I appreciate your frankness.
The question that I left too implicit in my initial phrasing was “Why is that so?”
Let me tell you my personal belief, and perhaps you can tell me if you think it makes sense: I think the reason is that we all acknowledge that truth exists in these fields, both empirical and logical, depending on which field. The reason that it wouldn’t be helpful to just sit around with the same disagreements indefinitely is that we recognize that at least some people in that context are wrong, are advocating for something that hampers our ability to understand the world and productively act on it. Of course, it’s also possible that everyone is wrong, but that still presents the need to find what is right and reach a consensus on the topic.
So it stands to reason that when there is truth and falsity to something, sitting around in disagreement is counterproductive, even if openness to challenge is critical and some marginal amount of disagreement is going to exist anyway. This raises an important question: Where is there truth, and where is there not truth?
Could it be, and please correct me if I misunderstand you, that the reason you believe this is that you don’t believe there is truth in these topics?
If so, I agree with you that there is no truth in morality. Morality is fundamentally an arbitrary thing because it is based on personal values. On that account, I also don’t see why a diversity of moral opinions is really that helpful. Does it really make society better for one group to think the other is doing evil, and the reverse? There’s no basis for saying who is right or wrong and morality itself only exists socially and psychologically, so what benefit do we get from this?
However, in terms of political views, there is a very important to make a distinction between two things: Political values and political-economic analysis of what systems produce what results. Political values are basically a genre of moral value, and so everything that I said about morality before applies here. Political-economic analysis is not that, it is making empirical claims about what concretely happens in the world. Therefore, if we agree on us existing in a materialist universe (as I assume we do if you value scientific consensus), then it stands to reason that there is truth on this subject, and therefore that people can be correct or incorrect, even if these are immensely complicated questions and there are many answers we don’t have (which is also true of fields like physics).
On this basis, it is vital that we have the ability to challenge existing theories, but it is detrimental to sit around in perpetual, fragmented disagreement on empirical facts.
This is very important for practical political discussions, because people are going to value what they value and can arbitrarily choose such a thing, but we cannot make progress in any direction unless we work toward an understanding of the truth in terms of what systems produce what material results.
Sure, and I would say that if we had no concern about resource scarcity, then working very hard to deprogram flat-earthers would also be a good thing. As you might have guessed from my statement about morality, I don’t think it’s useful to think of others as “bad people” who have sinned so greatly that they cannot be redeemed. I think there are better and worse uses of an individual’s and an organization’s time, but that has nothing to do with people being morally unworthy or theoretically unsalvageable.
But interestingly, this points again toward consensus-building, does it not?
I really don’t like AHX personally, because while it paints a very authentic picture of a particular type of fascist (I knew someone exactly like that), it doesn’t have almost anything to say about how to make someone not be a fascist. Like, he befriends a black dude and reads some books that we only see the titles of. Really? We don’t see almost any of why he recovers, which to me makes the film mostly unhelpful, especially since the film is full of fascist bile that the movie certainly doesn’t endorse but also doesn’t refute. So in the end, we have a bunch of arguments for fascism and virtually none against.
Regarding the Ted Talk, does the Grand Wizard change his ways? If not, I don’t see how it’s very helpful. Like, running a white supremacist organization that is actively working to destroy people’s lives isn’t really helped by the guy in charge personally having a black friend. Wouldn’t it just be normalizing being an ethnonationalist? Something that I’m sure we can agree we would be better off with none of.
That’s interesting. I personally think this person just has a hyperfixation and that’s why they’re so dedicated. I can’t claim to know or really have evidence, though I really think a fed would use rhetoric that is more clever than the slop they produce (especially by slipping in wedge issues). I’m definitely not saying your belief is unjustified, though.
This seems to be the predominant view, but I have yet to hear a convincing argument. Morality might not be empirical (we’ll never discover the Good Particle™), but then neither is math.
Most math is empirically observable, e.g. if you have two apples here and two apples there and group them together, you will always have four apples. Morality has no potential basis in observable reality except how people feel, and people often have feelings that contradict the feelings of others. You can arbitrarily choose moral premises to come to deductively valid moral conclusions, but there is no reason at all to pick one set of premises over others except how you or some division of the population happens to feel, which itself is not actually proof of good and bad. This again isn’t true for the foundations of mathematics.
Ehh…debatable.
So there is one, and only one set of premises (axioms?) that serves as the foundation of all mathematics?
This is just silly.