If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve? What effects did you notice, both desirable and undesirable? Why did you end the orgasm denial streak? What did you learn from the experience? Did you do it solo or with a partner? Demographic details (eg, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relevant kinks), if you care to share, are also helpful to understand your experience.

Btw, I created an !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com community.

  • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 month ago

    1 month and it was last lockOctober. I went nuts to be true, especially the last days, I wanted so bad to cum. Yesterday I started again, wish me luck.

      • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        1 month ago

        Thanks, you too! Do you have goal? or as long as you can hold? also do you have a keyholder? I don’t so I try to keep the key away. Ice would be a good idea too.

        • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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          1 month ago

          I have a goal to be orgasm-free for 2026 (anal masturbation and orgasms okay, just not penile), which is ambitious. Today’s day 51 for me, and I’ll tie my personal best tomorrow 🥰.

          I don’t have a keyholder.

          After practicing chastity for a few years, I think I’ve come to appreciate that, for me, willpower is the greatest deterrent to pursue an orgasm. The cage and key obstruction methods are secondary to that. (For example, I’m not in chastity all the time, because of chafing, nocturnal erections, etc.; willpower’s doing all the hard work then)

          Wearing a cage makes me feel more secure about my orgasm denial. I like wearing it out under clothes as a reminder to myself. I always want it on if I’m watching porn or masturbating or feeling tempted to touch myself.

          I have a time-locking safe that I prefer to the ice method. It’s becoming part of my masturbation routine that cage goes on, key gets locked, …

          Do you have orgasm denial or chastity goals?

          You might enjoy this fledgling community, where I provide orgasm denial updates. Feel free to do the same ☺️! !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com

          • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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            1 month ago

            My goals are to not jerk off at all, but I did at lunch, by jerkin my chastity up and down and using my phone as a vibrator, and to hold more than a month. I have it on 24/7. The only time I take it off is when I go to the bathroom and when I take a bath so I can wash it.

            The wrost part I’m fantasizing a lot of scenes with a news reporter, and I want to jerk even more.

            • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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              1 month ago

              If you’re enjoying yourself, keep doing what you’re doing. But if you’d like to masturbate less (or spend less time preoccupied with it), don’t have a partner (source of accountability), and still jerk off with your 24/7 chastity cage on - I’m not sure a chastity cage will help you meet your goals. Wearing it probably increases your arousal - especially when you’re trying to focus on other things. I wanted to put that out there. But I’ll close as I started, with the most important part: If you’re enjoying yourself, keep doing what you’re doing

              • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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                1 month ago

                I totally enjoy it, and I jerk less, which is the main goal even with the cage on. Chastity will always be a way to test stuff.