• Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    3 months ago

    I disagree, I’m not making you the enemy. I just won’t follow your tactics or your rhetoric. If you think that not doing what you think I should be doing, makes me your enemy, that’s on you.

    You can’t be serious.

    If I told you that we’re only temporary allies but I’m not allowing you to have any kind of leadership and I do not regard this as ‘unity’, you would interpret that as me saying when the conditions of our alliance are over that I intend to kill you, you would melodramatically say “like the bolsheviks” or something like that.

    You would interpret it that way for me. I don’t see why you think I shouldn’t interpret it that way when you say it.

    but it was y’all direct actions over the last 3 years that have made me suspicious and cautious against y’all.

    Actions like?

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      3 months ago

      We’re anarchists. We don’t look for “leadership” in that way. For me only the actions matter. If you performed anarchist praxis and build prefigurative structures I wouldn’t have a reason not to see you as an ally. If you put your effort into capturing state power to wield it over others hierarchically, It would make me suspicious and eventually bring us in direct opposition.

      Actions such as constant bad faith, 1000-comment pile ons, misrepresentation and last but not least, ableism. Hell, in the comment alone, other hexbears can’t help themselves but barge in and leave snarky or malicious comments.

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        3 months ago

        This reply is stretching the limitations of good faith engagement, and my belief that you’re engaging in good faith.

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          3 months ago

          I’m not sure if you’re talking about my full reply or my 4 word short reply which I sent by mistake because of a misclick

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            3 months ago

            You edited the post 28 minutes after posting and 24 minutes after my reply. It did not take you 28 minutes to write 5 sentences.

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              3 months ago

              I edited immediately actually, it took me like 10 minutes to finish writing the reply on the phone. There might be federation delays. FFS the comment I posted originally was even clearly cut off in the middle. How can you be so uncharitable?