Hey, im searching for a (character driven) fantasy book written by a female author with a female lead, who despite being strong doesnt loose her feminity over it. So absolutely no “not like the other girls” characters pls. I want a strong mc whos feminity is part of her, which she’s proud of. The book also would preferably not be solely romantasy. I love love love interpersonal relationships in books a whole lot but i would prefer the romance not being the sole focus.


Throne of Glass by Sarah J Maas. and all of her other books. My wife and I read through them all together, and the Throne of Glass series was definitely my favorite.
This is what I’m came here to say. I could not even tell you how many times my wife has read the entire series.
The series is pretty freaking cool! Unique world building; characters that are interesting, flawed, and impactful; and very well written. The connections between SJM’s 3 series are also amazing.