• Echo (they/them)@lemmy.world
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    17 days ago

    That I don’t have enough curves in the right places yet I can’t manage to put more weight on. That I’ll never be seen correctly for who I am due to my unfortunate bone structure… I do have upcoming ffs so maybe that will change, but I remain pretty hopeless whenever there are mirrors around.

    • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      17 days ago

      That’s really rough mate, your bone structure is unfortunate and it stops people seeing you correctly. I understand the hopelessness… what would help you accept your body?

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        16 days ago

        Honestly probably being accepted in more irl women’s circles (I’m just rejected from all currently). Here in the US South that isn’t really a possibility without passing unfortunately. A few years of hrt hasn’t been sufficient in overcoming my bone structure, so I can’t really see myself correctly most of the time…I can’t really blame anyone for constantly misgendering me. I’m a they/she sort of trans enby but I just default to neutral pronouns because of it…and people still don’t even acknowledge those. Being alive just hurts most of the time and I’m not sure that will ever change.