I use X, Instagram, and Pinterest for thirst content. Sadly, the former two are unsafe (unsure about Pinterest but it is American and not FOSS so I’d assume the same). I’d really like to shift off these platforms, but I’m having trouble finding anything with a reliable search and algo that isn’t a dry well.
There are a lot of NSFW communities here on Lemmy. Maybe that’d be a good alternative, though it probably depends on what you’re looking for.
Yeah sadly not as much male content out there.