Went to 3-4 clubs last night. Security line was long, got patted down, multiple guards, metal detectors. I thought it was gonna be wild.
I was awestruck by the contrast in at least 2 clubs. The servers were in lingerie and had their ass and tits out (and I mean this positively because that’s the only good thing I can remember from my night out), Lil Jon and all the other club classics were blaring. Guys had on jeans and a tshirt and maybe a trucker hat or baseball hat, while their girlfriends were much more elegantly dressed. But regardless they just stood around or played cornhole.
The last one was a bit more high energy, but it was just people facing the DJ and vibing to it like a concert.
I don’t dance or anything either. I only went to maintain the illusion of being normal and social. But it was somehow even more awkward being around a bunch of awkward people than if everyone was dancing.
I don’t know. I was expecting it to be like the music videos with people dancing around the floor and mixing and mingling with each other. Is this normal in the US?
34·5 天前
there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to dance but going to a club and not dancing is like going to a pool and not swimming. it’s the whole raison detre of the enterprise. heap of other kinds of experience that are better for socializing (regular bar), even for the sleazy atmosphere and seeing people dance (strip club). don’t bother with the club if you’re not out for a dance.