That sucks, sorry to hear that. It’s annoying having to be the one to carry friendships/relationships because the other person won’t bother.
Sorry, it’s hard at first but it gets easier. I got in contact online with an old friend recently, told him what’s going on with me and then he ghosted me too. It does feel humiliating and hurtful but then you realise they weren’t really your friend and you’re better off without them rather than always hoping for a scrap of friendship from them.
their last message was on july 1st too and they left me on delivered. finally can laugh about it rather than let it get to me…
I do this all the time. It’s not on purpose, and it’s not their fault. https://rivieratherapy.com/object-permanence-and-adhd-relationships/
i have adhd too and its more to this situation
Was it me? I am not sure if it was, since I have been busy doing research on places to move.
no not u pookie someone in my irl
pookie?
yes
I have never been called that before. Do you really view me as being close enough to use that (genuinely)?
im that guy. im the guy who doesn’t really care if i have any friends at all. people are too needy and it always feels like obligation more than anything. i realize im a terrible person but it is what it is.
You’re not terrible for having zero interest in people. You’d not even be terrible for having zero empathy. You are terrible only if that is not communicated properly and you toy with people, because you don’t need interest or empathy to ‘rationally’ know you’re going to cause harm that way, and that is not correct or desirable (in your case, if not for the individual per se, it is not desirable for the chain reaction that may even reach you).
