The job search started in earnest, with my first interviews, too. Some fun and new stuff for me!

• Monday, I wanted to explore my switch-y side, not just always be dominant, so I met up with a super tall beefy dom guy who wanted a full body tongue bath.
  • It was quite fun! Very few words were spoken, and a tremendous amount of eye contact with pregnant pauses.
  • It was satisfying to make him feel good in ways he wanted to feel good. A lot of extra attention was given to his hole, taint, balls, and cock. He directed me a bit this way or that way, but never roughly, and never in a degrading way. Good kisser, too.
  • I know I was supposed to feel submissive, but I also felt a great deal of power over him, like I’m the one doing it, a little more like when I’m a pleasure dom. He enjoyed keeping my head between his thighs for a bit, and eventually I sucked him and his big balls dry.
  • We had nice friendly pillow talk after that, too. I’d probably see him again. He’s neither top nor bottom, but he’s into more stuff and it could be fun to experiment and explore.
• Wednesday afternoon, I met up with R for a drink. He’s the very smooth muscley bottom guy I met on Hinge, and then we connected on Grindr lol. Last we met we cuddled and made out a little.
  • After a drink, instead of going to another bar for a beer like he suggested, I proposed we go over to his place for quieter 1/1 time. We walked over and chatted, cuddled, and made out a little more intently. As my hands explored his legs I found that he was also very hard. Cuddling was difficult on the couch, so I moved us to the bed.
  • He’s really nice to kiss, and I could just look at his handsome face forever :-) we undressed and explored each other’s bodies. He has such a well toned body, especially his incredible butt. He likes my hairy hairy body too, and we moved into a 69 position with him sucking me, and me rimming him.
  • I had him slow down a few times, and ultimately lasted about in hour of various configurations of oral sex, rimming, and hands. Until finally I could wait no longer, and had him swallow every drop of my load. He said it tasted much better than he’s used to :-)
  • He didn’t want to cum, though I offered a few ways for it. We snuggled with bodies tight against each other. His head resting on my chest and playing with my hair. I wanted to just stay like that and fall asleep but I had to go.
  • He said he wasn’t sure if I’d be up for sex and not just a drink, but I think physical compatibility is important to both of us. He confessed he was very happy when I suggested we go back to his place instead of getting another drink.
• That evening, I went to a Valentine’s Day event with a gay married guy (R couldn’t make it, I asked him first lol). We had a lovely time, a few drinks, and great live music. We caught up a bit, and saw a couple of exhibits, too.
  • On the way home, I asked him directly that “I know I’m not exactly your type, but would you ever want to do more than hang out?” He usually prefers older men, you see, and he and I are the same age. He said he’s not sure right now, and is that okay? And yeah, that’s okay with me :-)
  • He asked me if he’s my type, and I said something like “hell yeah!” lol
  • He thanked me over text again for a great evening, and also for asking him about what he actually wants. I bought some pizza on the way home 🙃