If dude’s hobbies are not conducive to meeting people their age what do you say they should do? Just stay lonely? Yes the apps suck but they are the only option for a large portion of people.
I have no quarrel with the technology of online dating in itself, just the enclosed dark pattern techbro variety that people are so weirdly resigned to. The torment nexus frequently just heaps further anguish atop the loneliness, which it has no incentive to actually help resolve.
As a person old enough to remember dating before the apps, yes they are all bad and everyone should ditch them.
If dude’s hobbies are not conducive to meeting people their age what do you say they should do? Just stay lonely? Yes the apps suck but they are the only option for a large portion of people.
I’ve made it 27 years without sex so far
hardly a record, plenty of time for fishing still
I have no quarrel with the technology of online dating in itself, just the enclosed dark pattern techbro variety that people are so weirdly resigned to. The torment nexus frequently just heaps further anguish atop the loneliness, which it has no incentive to actually help resolve.