• алсааас [she/her]@lemmy.dbzer0.comBanned from community
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    21 days ago

    I don’t have an issue with you being like that or you writing that here, sry if it came across like that.

    Like I’m kinky and chronically online myself, OFC in a different form and with different interest (potato potato tho).

    But I am not defined by that, it’s not at the core of my being.
    And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here…

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      21 days ago

      sry if it came across like that.

      To me it didn’t come across like that at all. I fully understood what you wanted to say, which is why I told you my little story.

      And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here…

      It doesn’t define me either. I’m just sick right now and wanted to do a little silly posting, like I always do. Humour makes my life a lot more bearable and EatMoreMacroplastics’ comment did make me laugh quite a bit. That doesn’t mean that I let this stereotype define me, it just means that I find it funny, especially since it’s true to a degree

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          21 days ago

          As if trans people are responsible for harmful stereotypes and not transphobes. That’s what i mean when i say that you sound like an assimilationist loser, you’re playing the respectability politics game way too hard.