• Godort@lemmy.ca
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    5 days ago

    I did it about a decade ago after the promise that it would improve the quality of orgasms. Instead, after the first week it was like I was 13 again and ready to go at any point.

    It doesnt feel any better when it’s over, it’s just more to clean up.

    • TheOrcWhoWrites@lemmy.worldOP
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      I am also asexual. You can be asexual and still masturbate. This is a common misconception that asexual people don’t masturbate. Asexual just means not being attracted to anyone. Masturbation doesn’t require lust.

      • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
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        Mang, some folks just got unusual sexual orientations, or no orientation at all.

        I’m not in the Epstein files, that’s for damn sure.

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          Their comment made me think of:

          • This person jerks it to little.
          • That person jerks it too much.
          • And this person jerks it just the right amount.

          I thik being angry about ace or NNN is just silly, its their body, go ahead and give those gonads a rest.

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              I think your comment can be read both as positive or negative, and then I put you in the wrong box probably because of the down votes.

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                Ignorance is not always malice. Especially in the + section of LGBTQIA+. Most people are just ignorant, and can be expected to not know about niche sexual preferences.

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    5 days ago

    Is this just for jerking off or is sexy times with the SO also included?

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      Here’s an asci venn diagram of the people taking part in this challenge and the people who have an active sex life:

      O O

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        Probably true for the most part, but I did know a guy who had a contest with his girlfriend to see how long they could go without fucking and who would break first. People have all kinds of kinks around sex, and sometimes the kink is abstinence.

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    I did a version based on the Seinfeld episode The Contest before it was called no nut November. I did win after 28 long days but I will never be doing that again. The first nut back was pretty great because it was just a huge relief but so not worth it