• Starkstruck@lemmy.world
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    5 个月前

    I will never understand why some guys think this won’t immediately make the woman they’re messaging hate them. Like, no one wants to be needlessly pestered.

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      5 个月前

      Probably cause for one reason or another they’re not considering the other person as that, a person.

      I mean I understand how it can happen, it’s happened to most guys at some point, it happened to me once or twice, but I was 15 and inexperienced. If you’re doing this at say, 30, you’re either truly incapable of empathy or otherwise malicious