I’m 36, and while my love life has been varied and interesting, over the last few years I’ve started to want to settle down. I know it doesn’t happen overnight. But recently it’s been weighing on me more and more. I reminisce about past relationships. I feel hopeless about meeting someone in the future who shares my values.
On the one hand you hear things like “happiness comes from within”, but on the other we are social animals and 99% of us want to feel loved and to love.
I think modern society understates how important it is to have a partner. It is nor necessary but people tend to couple up.
With that being said, a shiti partner is the worst.
So got to bring something into it and find somebody who does the same. Nothing wrong with wanting that and making moves to do it.
It won’t be a straight line but got to try.