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Cake day: June 5th, 2025

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  • I reached this point a few years ago. I was sick of cheap plastic being everywhere and marketing telling me a I need things to make my life convenient.

    I like buying value but they have crept up in price. My small but enduring example has been kitchen utensils and cooking products(decent wooden chopping boards, oven trays etc).

    I had to start my life again so I have been trying to thrift of buy 1 decent quality things one at a time as a treat. Sad but fulfilling. This is how it is now in most areas on my life.

    I dont buy for matching. I buy for function and, and quality.

    I like being in the garden it seems so much more acceptable to repurpose and tinker in that world but for homes it seems to be looked down on.

    I know it’s not simple when you need something immediate but you can start replacing crap in small sections. The kitchen utensils was mine. 10 quality items only…in the utensils tub by the oven. 10 only. No plastic.





  • I don’t feel comfy sharing something, however as a mother it’s a hard thing to say but resilience and learning to let things bounce of you will make you feel happier. I know that sounds easy to say but inhibitions based on what others think just stops you being happy.

    Not everything is sweetness and light but you can choose to enjoy happiness your way. Even the little moment.

    I hope you get the extra support you need. Please take comfort in knowing you are loved and people even far away are wishing you to be happy








  • The thing is in the early days you had some control. Now you don’t.

    But by the settings have been removed and our personal content has been squirrelled off to be regurgitated for tech bots narrative. Anything someone might see now It’s not the real shared me. It’s a Frankenstein’s monster virtual version of me where only my ability to sell something or convey the current message gets through to others. Because that’s all that is of value to them, not what is of help to me. I started censoring a long time ago as I suspect many other did.

    But if anyone wants to know I had eggs at bennys for breakfast and they were OMG (insert orgasm face) they are so well priced too, get down there asap and get some before benny meets an untimely end. Don’t forget to subscribe for more money saving breakfasts. /S