Ah, I see, Lemmy is a lame space for lame people lol.

People who don’t want another pumpkin spice football country girl harry potter space get upset that there aren’t spaces for people that hate that shit because

every single space EVER is for you normies.

You people are so selfish, you will not stop until everything is a jeep and a tiki torch. I love being negative, you people are lame. At least I’m happy. Ya’ll walk a tightrope balancing act every day to feign well being for a bunch of people that do not care about you at all.

Also Harry Potter fans are pathetic. You are bad at liking art and a bigot. I used to be a huge fan too. If you can’t upgrade your time use, don’t try to justify that level of incompetence to me.

Nah actually people like you need to take a walk outside lmao in my opinion. These things suck for foot traffic and take jobs from people who often have no other means of survival at all. They are made by weird tech guys who design them for optimizing profit over everything else which should NOT be the case for what is a vehicle in a street

Weird, gross comments about women’s bodies you find icky. We already had a system in place for women like us and it was dismantled by morons. Transition isn’t a “completely different experience” post puberty for fucks sake.

Cis people are so gross

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Recommend whatever you want to and just be honest with yourself and others about the content inside so that way can watch it when ready.

I love Tokyo Godfathers. It’s a very trans positive movie. It’s also a very transphobic movie. I recommend it as a christmas movie to tons of people. It is really good.

One is like a high school bully who doesn’t understand what’s going on but just knows that you are trans (AV)

The other is like the teacher who’s smart enough to use all the right words to bother you specifically without alarming the rest of the class (SoTL)

SoTL is a pretty queer film, so it understands trans people enough to be rightfully considered progressive for it’s time. But it uses that to create the same rhetoric some people use to bully and shame trans people with other factors of oppression (Disability, Gender non-conformity). The movie implies some people “think” they are trans, but actually aren’t, and it’s up to a “trained professional” to figure out who is “really trans” and who is really an villain in disguise.

It works because most cis people can’t be trusted to not misgender a trans person they see as evil, especially if someone gives them a false air of legitimacy about it (in this case, the opinion of the characters who aren’t Bill)

I’m glad they are taking responsibility for it lol. The movie was transmedicalist. It feels like every other character but Bill is tasked with determining how real Bill’s gender is. It’s so blatantly bigoted.

You’re just right. Most people are really weak and spineless, and on top of that a lot of people are just plain evil. We constantly make excuses for the people who cause the most harm through bigotry and we’re all pressured into punishing anyone who decides to take action against bigots into their own hands.

I say fuck it all and do what I want which is the opposite of that. No more coddling bigoted viewpoints.

I appreciate you listening. I do expect you to be able to be more accepting of other trans people and to be stronger in the face of bigotry.

I think you are able to overcome these feelings.

The thing I probably feel the most about being a trans person is that I feel like I’m constantly being proven right that people secretly hate us. That I should trust my gut instincts when I feel that energy and protect myself accordingly.

Every post lately on every platform has this air right now. Of “how can I fit in more and avoid being outcast” and the answer to that question is meet the needs of the status quo. And the status quo right now is and has been “try to remove trans people from society”.

I don’t think there are answers that work that aren’t “stop being afraid of being trans”

If I’m nice will you leave my comment up?

If you act bigoted towards trans people, because you’re trans and can’t come out due to internalized bigotry, then other trans people notice and it hurts. You’re being hurtful.

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Wow lots of flexing over a transphobe. I’ll celebrate when she actually consistently votes any better than her predecessors. Choke on your hope pill

Acting like people don’t “understand” imo is just transphobia. Your state shouldn’t have voted for bigotry. This shows cis people have failed their end of the social contract.

No more blaming trans people for transphobia period.

Edit: Because I wanted to make the message simpler.

Cis people harm trans people.

It’s not that they don’t get it, or don’t understand, or don’t know about it, the reason so much harmful legislation passes marginalizing trans people is because of the oppression by cisgender people.

Ew tell then to fuck off with that garbage

Everyone knows why and should call it out too. It’s bigotry towards trans people plain and simple. People expect us to be ok with being treated worse. That’s bullshit!

I have been following expectations less and less, it is really good for my quality of life and I recommend it personally.

I’m trans and homeless though so I never get hired and everyone treats me like a criminal by default anyway lol even though I’m clean and healthy they think I’m dirty and weird because of my recycled clothes and that I dress for the weather and comfort which doesn’t align with their gender expectations. I just treat it like a really good flea dip, everyone who treats me with kindness is more trustworthy.

I gave up on finding work in August when things didn’t work out with an amazing case manager. She could get anyone a job, the problem is the market was ignoring me outright. I got certified and tons of volunteer experience along the way but none of it was worth it or got me what I was looking for in life.

I’ve been learning how to live outside in the city and out in nature too. Learning to identify plants and forage. My partner is amazingly kind and supportive thankfully, although they often struggle too. It’s way more rewarding because these skills can carry me through the rest of my life and give me autonomy that no one can take away through outside pressure.

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Oh yeah man just keep making your most active political activist bloc homeless and poor by not addressing the harm Trump did. You’ll complain about us the whole time but never sit down, shut up, and solve the issue. The pipe IS leaking on social issues and it’s not YOUR economy only, cis cracker.

From a purely strategic standpoint the people like you in my family are seen as having chose the fascists over their queer family members, IJS. I don’t know how “bad” your family is, but I cut off my dad after he told me “n words are taking all the welfare” and I don’t talk to anyone who take his side on that issue. I’ve been called all manner of immature for that decision by people like you. But my dad is a racist chud, still is.

I mean they’re not entirely wrong but I hate that they think it takes blame off themselves. Like they were forced to do Trumps bidding or sign military contracts under the most evil military of all time. Nobody forced them at all though, they were fucking bidding for the contracts and gave half assed reasoning for why they MUST cooperate. Absolute henchmen goofball behavior