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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I’ll be frank as a person that has been on dating websites before they were apps… people often go on them for small validation and then realize they have no time to meet others when they have to prep for work. It’s gotten worse after covid lockdowns.

    I’m on Grindr and Feeld mostly and Hinge sometimes. I’m mostly looking for casual sex buddies and not relationships.

    I’m not gonna say the “it’s not you it’s me” line nor its inverse. Because the honest answer is: it’s not us, it’s capitalism.

    I’ve had to cancel so many times on people because I sometimes get home too tired to move after work. And have had people cancel as well. Nobody admits that fatigue but it’s understood.

    And keep in mind I’m queer, bi, relatively attractive and literally looking to hand out blowjobs. Sometimes people are too tired to even get their dicks sucked

    So don’t think you’re doing things completely wrong. The hellscape makes it hard to meet new people.







  • I’ve been on lemmygrad since the John Brown incident and since genzedong was quarantined. I’m on lemm.ee now and don’t want hexbear to leave.

    People gotta stop being so sensitive about losers online. Sometimes it seems like people are discovering liberalism for the first time in their lives. Like do you even exist in the world? Liberalism is the default in the world.