Melonius [he/him]

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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • I was talking with a parent some time ago. Her daughter was really sweet and sociable with everyone. She expressed some concern that she was struggling with finding a way to limit / curtail / correct (I don’t remember the exact wording) that behavior because it wasn’t always safe. At the time, I was thinking more about how crime is hyper focused in media so I pushed back a bit and said I didn’t think it was something she should worry about and it was great that her daughter was so outgoing and friendly. I discussed it with a friend and she reminded me that I’m a self-absorbed dude who’s never had to worry about that and I really regret saying it.

    If I could apologize to that parent now (maybe I’ll see her again idk) I’d say that it sucks that our society makes being such a wonderful person like her daughter so hazardous. I gave it 0 thought and talked out of my ass kitty-birthday-sad