libidinal goes kinda hard tho matt was really onto something with that one
's escalations in the middle east.
i’m not much of a bulletins and news poster but uh…is this some world war 3 shit? i find it hard to follow rapidly developing geopolitics but this all seems very bad and bleak…
you may be right that it simply needs more time. feels bad right now but if we’re really meant to stay close it’s a pretty small blip in the course of a human life (knock on wood, assuming nothing bad happens to us prematurely). it’s a bit more complicated than hoping she’ll come around though. obviously i still have feelings, but i don’t think i’d trust the prospect of romantic reconciliation right now. and it’s not really black and white who broke things off - she made the final judgment call but i impulsively proposed doing so then took it back during the fight that ended stuff which obviously made her feel destabilized and unsafe, it was a pretty bad time. relationships and dating are hard man
considering what a dork i act like in the mega methinks many of you would be quiiiiiiiiiiiite surprised to learn how handsome and charming i am in the real grasstouching world
Usually people find that hard but I figure since we were never really lovers (just rapidly heading there) it should be easier.
it’s massively case by case but yeah usually easier to convert a crush that never happened back to friendship. it sounds like crush 2 is going through some dark shit from your last post, i hope they get the help they need.
first dates are low stakes! don’t worry so much about rizz and worry more about being open and curious about her, remember that you’re feeling out whether you might be interested in her as much as the other way around. I agree with CommieJones about keeping texting to a minimum before an in-person meet, you can get so much more of a real read on someone out of a few hours face to face vs a whole epoch of texting.
haha maybe i am not ready to be friends with my ex situationship i saw them on feeld and it gave me some baaaaaaaaaaaad feelings in my heart and soul maybe i’ll get over it by the time it’s time to see them this week. if we’re friends obviously we’d want to be able to talk about each other’s love lives but i feel like that’s something that’s maybe wiser to work up to than to dive into right away and i was not at all ready for the “stumble upon them on the sex app” introduction to all that. feeld is so fucking stupid in terms of its privacy features also, idk if you can block people at all and you definitely can’t do the tinder and hinge thing where you block your phone contacts
Work sucks
also true on its own (but yes to the rest of your post as well lol)
def better long term but probably feels more unfun in the moment lol
you’re reminding me i should catch up on blowback, i’m 2 seasons behind (the korea one was the last one i listened to)
drank in excess alone last night and shut off two separate spooky movies halfway through cuz i was enjoying them so little. loser evening for Soylent
ending jenny death with death grips 2.0 instead of On GP is a world class L. sino-soviet split levels.
thought about picking it up for Aki but fighting games are such a time sink…
when i was acclimating to the apps after a decade+ not using them at all, i got in my feelings about a lack of success a lot (and posted incessantly about it here). but most matches fizzle and it’s not personal, and even if she felt like it was personal on her end somehow (i.e. got a vague ick from a reply of yours), this match doesn’t know you at all. you’re a few paragraphs and a curated selection of photos. it really doesn’t reflect on you or your desirability at all at all at all.
it sucks, but the way i learned to function and find some success on the apps was to A) learn to never get attached to a match who i haven’t met in person yet and B) stop overthinking my approach and be myself/go with the flow more.
EDIT: lol just saw your update. see, sometimes it works out! i also had to learn to not read into periods of silence, sometimes its a lack of interest but sometimes there are other explanations. my mini-relationship off hinge started from her taking days between responses.
after careful deliberation orange monster > white monster
idk they probably would be too different but i just think it’s kinda cute
do you think harry and kim could fall in love if the former got his shit together and accepted his bisexuality?
weird bodily shit
why tf my nipples feel weird and sensitive when i have bad anxiety shit is unpleasant af