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Cake day: March 2nd, 2026

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  • The OG controller and Steam Deck are both sort of this way for me. Despite rarely using them, I never intend to sell them. My desktop just spoils me too much.

    I expect having the new controller will actually encourage me to use the Deck more often though. Right now, starting a new game on the Deck feels like committing to the lesser experience due to not wanting to jump between control schemes. Having control parity fixes that.













  • Nope, your rant is valid. I suck at processing verbal directions entirely. Good text directions are acceptable if there’s enough time beforehand to check them against Street View and handle any followup needed or the occasion is casual enough that being late doesn’t matter.


  • I think you got it exactly, and if you expand “social interactions” to include text conversations like this one, a narrow idea of what is “correct” is probably why so many of us here seem to care for good grammar.

    Going even further, I’d say it impacts any sort of “performance” that might have social consequences of any kind. I’ve been a perfectionist most of my life to the point that I would avoid trying a lot of things I couldn’t reasonably be sure I’d succeed at on the first try. Any failure would also shut me down pretty hard. In other words, other people’s “good enough” was my “unacceptable.” Only recently did I learn that’s common among autists, and it’s something I’m still working on.


  • I’ve had to take breaks from reading things that were too relatable in order to process them, but I can’t remember anything like that particular to ASD and childhood at the moment. Then again, I can’t say I’ve read many stories with an ASD protagonist at all. Maybe I should fix that, so thanks for the reading recommendation.

    Anyway, my brain was so used to contingency planning I don’t think this particular situation ever happened to me. I would have immediately flagged it and asked, "What should I do if they don’t have trout?, then asked a bunch of followup questions for acceptable other items, alternative places to check, etc. until I either had an acceptably thorough decision tree or annoyed the other person into giving up or understanding that they might not get what they want if reality doesn’t comply.