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  • This is a good unpopular opinion. I’m with you on this one. Here’s a little secret: all bodies are different. I think the vast majority of penises are very sensitive and bjs work great. Some of us have less sensitive penises or the sensitivity is such that bjs aren’t stellar.

    I’m a bit of a demisexual man whore so I’ve had a lot of different partners with different traits and body types. A wider variety than most, I’d say. I’ve had a lot of women who pride themselves on their bj skills, but for many if not most, it’s unearned pride. It’s basically like being born rich and thinking you made your own way. They did not develop a technique or skillset, they had a mouth and were willing. Since most guys cum easily from oral, I’m sure they feel very skilled.

    I take forever to orgasm, even masturbating. I’ve had many partners just tap out from PIV or anal due to sensitivity or orgasm fatigue and I end up having to finish myself or just got used to being unfulfilled. I’ve only met a couple of women who can give head, vigorously, for long periods of time. And face fucking, if they can take it very hard for very long, it’s inevitably going to end with your penis just polishing enamel at certain velocities.

    That all said, they’re still enjoyable. But I’d much rather oral be a pleasant very submissive gesture on their part, or a way for them to really familiarize themself with your body (it’s good bonding). But I get to PIV or PIA as quickly as I can.









  • I wasn’t just referring to geothermal, I was meaning in general. We’ve stopped doing important and useful things because there’s no immediate payout. But, geothermal has properties the above ground and easier options don’t. A sense of permanence that storms and clouds can’t affect. Always running. That’s very valuable. Yes, if you need a kWh, there’s cheaper and easier ways to get it. If you want a source of heat and energy that exists when everything else is broken, it’s hard to argue with it. A city emergency shelter comes to mind.




  • This isn’t to negate your point at all, because I get your meaning. But these days, the butcher is a skilled person who makes final cuts of meat. Often in grocery stores.

    The people who slaughter the animals do the initial skinning and halving or quartering of animals. Often they will also make the initial rough (large) cuts that get stamped for inspection approval and then vacuum sealed to be delivered to kitchens or butchers. The people at this step are called meat packers and it’s almost always where problems lie. Almost across the board the employees at these places are underpaid, overworked, and it’s where the meat has the greatest chance at contamination.








  • gdog05@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.world•Ahyone else do this?
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    20 days ago

    You know what’s worse? When they follow the script exactly. If they do, why bother even talking to them? I mean, they’re not safe enough to unmask around, hence the rehearsing. And you can guess their responses. I have run into this way too many times. I’m disappointed every time. If I’ve rehearsed a fight, and they follow the script exactly, it suddenly feels like playing chess against a toddler. Yeah, I’m going to win the argument. But does it even matter if I can fit all of their thoughts into mine? It makes me feel very alone when it happens.