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Cake day: 2026年3月3日

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  • Guy who lost their mum here. So many people told me how I should and shouldn’t feel. It annoyed the crap out of me. Let them know that how they feel is absolutely a valid and understandable way to feel. Do not try to correct them or change how they are - just tell them they are loved and you are there for them.

    And whatever you do do not make them feel like their sadness is an inconvenience to you. I got that thrown at me quite a bit and it made me feel so much worse and stalled any attempt at mourning.









  • I figure that hierarchy only works if it has full-and-consistent consent of everyone within it. So for example if it was 20 people and electrical decisions were being made, and there was one electrician, people would collectively vote that guy to be in charge of electrics.

    Within the current system, for example, we have no direct vote over having 70 year old boomers with no experience using the internet (outside of sending emails to their mate Jeff) making decisions that completely disrupt the way the internet it used. This is where anarchy is arguably far better.