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Cake day: August 24th, 2026

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  • Hey, you’re getting some really rough replies here. Not everyone is like this person and a lot of people do have capacity for reassurance, even long term. (I’m one, for instance, with my partner.)

    I think it’s incredibly cruel to imply your partner, who they’ve never met, will eventually tire and leave you. That’s playing into your obvious fears, and they have no idea what your situation and partnership is.

    Take care, and listen to your heart and your partner, not callous lemmy comments. ♥️




  • Nah people are over zealous these days. I do it on Fridays or when I remember, whatever happens first. And I’ve been running arch or other rolling release distros for well over 15 years.

    These days prompt injection or supply chain attacks are way more likely to pwn you than running 1week old software. (My own thoughts, idk if this is good praxis either.)

    But flaming is bad and you shouldn’t get that response regardless. Sorry ❤️











  • Or trauma, depression, etc, etc. We should really stop diagnosing people and just suggest mental health support from a professional when something is wrong.

    Sincerely - a person with cptsd, who has been constantly misdiagnosed with autism and adhd by the community (I have neither, and it was harmful to think that was my problem).