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2 days agosorry to hear about your visit to yorkshire but i hope you have a good birthday anyway
soyaEnjoyer [they/them, she/her]
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Cake day: March 1st, 2026
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yeah, you’re probably right. i guess i’m kind of a hoarder and it’s time to donate that shit.
this is very good. well done!
stopped working 10 years ago
stopped repressing 7 years ago
still have some m*n’s office clothes “just in case”
(i do hope to work again one day but i couldn’t handle an office and i wouldn’t be larping as a m*n)what’s the correct timescale to fully de-agab your wardrobe?
2·5 days agoHow was your week?
really good again ty! i did a lot - it’s so good to be able to go out and do things again. i missed the post last week so i’m including a couple of things from that too:
- a very funny action with the tenants union
- interviewed for a position with a group of harm reduction volunteers
- tenants union meeting
- palestine march
- first meeting of a new org
Do you have some plans for next week?
org meetings, friend meetings (i haven’t seen one of them in years and i’m a bit worried that we may no longer be very well aligned), and hopefully joining a queer self defence class. there are 2 peer support groups i usually go to but may skip. and i still haven’t started “this soviet world” for the reading group. even 6 months ago i’d have never imagined i’d have so many things available to do that i’d have to start prioritising. but it’s good - i like being busy.
29·6 days agoThank you for posting this, comrade, but it’s quite bad to read on mobile since the quotes in fenced code blocks do not wrap.
Would you mind using > block quotes for the quotes instead of putting them in ``` fenced code blocks? 🙏🏻
4·6 days ago
sorry, that shit sucks. i chipped one of my front ones years ago (i was doing something really stupid but idr what) and, even now, it feels kind of wrong.
how did you do yours?
sometimes they just like to waste your time with the power too low. tell them to crank it up and ignore your pleas for the pain to stop.
ah well. you girlmoded at your new job today, right? so that’s already huge!
they have a very cool little org that does a very cool thing for trans people. all voluntary. all paid for by donations. i really really want to get it. but i don’t want to piss them off :|
brain nonsense but you get to vooooote
(the they/thems here are referring to the org - it’s not some weird crypto-misgendering thing)
so the volunteering thing that i interviewed for - on the day one of the interviewers that it went well and that, if i got accepted, i could come shadow them this weekend before starting training.
i’m an anxious little goblin who hates uncertainty so i emailed them yesterday to chase it. they said they’d had some last-minute applicants and they won’t finish interviews until tomorrow and that i’m not expected to go this weekend, i can still go if i like, but it won’t affect their decision.
i’m not great at social cues so i’m wondering if their reply means i should actually go and it will actually affect the decision. or maybe they’re just managing me and want me to leave them alone. or maybe it’s all just genuine. the woman who i’ve been emailing was one of the interviewers and she does seem great actually. so hopefully it’s the latter.
wait why is there a key for the restaurant bathroom? for what purpose? is the cutlery chained to the table, too?
hope you corrected that guy. all forms of misgendering suck.
vikas music sadly hasn’t released a commemorative track so you’ll just have to listen to this and substitute “dick” for “anne” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRHk5Dq5lfs
Good for you! More posts like this please :)
those poor wickle wealth extraction organisations are the real victims in all of this
UP WITH TRANS
when you say “lil”, do you mean child or adult? bc child gender services can’t prescribe any more and i’ve heard stories of them doing what sounds a lot like conversion therapy.
but if that’s 2 years for adult services, great. referral to first appointment for me in england was 6 years and 3 or 4 months. but, yeah, that’s not even close to as bad as it gets.
are they diy’ing already? are you going to be a good big sib and support them in it if they choose it?