• Neato
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    4 months ago

    That’s flirting. It’s designed to protect the person’s ego if they guess that their affections are not returned. This case would have been a good example if the op wasn’t interested. She could have played it off as trying to win.

    • brbposting@sh.itjust.works
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      4 months ago

      And the human experience as well as range of personalities are incredibly broad. We know someone has a delightfully magical story about their now-spouse playing coy when they first met.

      So, “yes and“ even a wildly cocky person might flirt just because that’s them being them.

      Well said and great point!