There’s no scenario where you’re not the a-hole if you’re going to parrot something someone else told you in private, elsewhere.

I can think of several, including the one being described in the original post

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Seems like the finger should be pointed at you for being so naive and trusting someone so blindly?

And reading the post, you telling me if OP was sending nudes of his girlfriend to a group chat, Derrick is the asshole here?

Yeah alright.