Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I’m sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

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    I am disabled. I would take a magic cure in a second, as would the vast majority of disabled people.

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        I think if you do not want or need a cure, it’s not a disability. Doesn’t make sense to call it a disability then.

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            What is a disability “for intrinsic reasons” or that is “intrinsically wrong”? Only disabilities that cause direct pain?

            Per definition, a disability is something that gives you a handicap for living in how the world is.

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                I don’t care. The definition of what a disability is, is clear. When all people would be deaf, would deafness be a disability? No.

                It doesn’t matter whether you personally want to be cured or not. If someone has no legs and they like it, it’s still a disability because the person has a clear handicap in the current world. It doesn’t matter that, in a hypothetical world where heaving legs doesn’t matter, it wouldn’t be seen as a handicap.

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                    No, it’s something else than (instead of autism). Perhaps it a-symptomatic or someone has overcome it.

                    Imagine someone has a broken leg. It would not make sense to say they still have a broken leg but it’s not a disability because society could just change and make it a non-problem. It’s irrelevant whether it wouldn’t be seen as a problem when everyone had a broken leg or no one would care about it.