started a new job recently and im boymoding at work atm. i was expecting it to be cold because most offices ive been in are really cold, but its actually pretty warm. this is a problem because my boobs are getting big enough to be visible under most shirts so ive been wearing a tight bralet, a tshirt, and a hoodie but its too hot so im sitting here sweating wishing i could take off this hoodie but not wanting my coworkers to notice my boobs 😐
anybody have some advice on how to stay cool? im worried im just doomed to suffer or come out at work.


She knows her situation better than we do. If she feels it’s not safe to be out yet, we shouldn’t assume that it is. “Comfort over conformity” assumes a lot about the type of environment a person is living in.