started a new job recently and im boymoding at work atm. i was expecting it to be cold because most offices ive been in are really cold, but its actually pretty warm. this is a problem because my boobs are getting big enough to be visible under most shirts so ive been wearing a tight bralet, a tshirt, and a hoodie but its too hot so im sitting here sweating wishing i could take off this hoodie but not wanting my coworkers to notice my boobs 😐

anybody have some advice on how to stay cool? im worried im just doomed to suffer or come out at work.

  • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    18 days ago

    She knows her situation better than we do. If she feels it’s not safe to be out yet, we shouldn’t assume that it is. “Comfort over conformity” assumes a lot about the type of environment a person is living in.