started a new job recently and im boymoding at work atm. i was expecting it to be cold because most offices ive been in are really cold, but its actually pretty warm. this is a problem because my boobs are getting big enough to be visible under most shirts so ive been wearing a tight bralet, a tshirt, and a hoodie but its too hot so im sitting here sweating wishing i could take off this hoodie but not wanting my coworkers to notice my boobs 😐

anybody have some advice on how to stay cool? im worried im just doomed to suffer or come out at work.

  • Staden_ スタデン@pawb.social
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    18 days ago

    I’ve heard that flannel/plaid shirts are good for hiding curves because of the chessboard pattern on them. There’s even a joke in transmasc circles that compares them to the dazzle camouflage used in ships during WWI.

    I can’t confirm they work. I can’t test it myself.

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      18 days ago

      Transmasc(ish) enby chiming in to confirm it works - it’s my self-imposed work uniform because bras make me dysphoric af and commute time + work hours + summer heat makes binding for work untenable most days.

      Wide leg pants also help to hide lower body curves if that’s also an issue.

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          18 days ago

          You can get flannel-like button ups that are made from very thin, breathable cotton materials and layer a dark cotton t-shirt underneath. It’s not perfect but it’s better than a hoodie during the summer months

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      17 days ago

      Alas, that makes what makes flannels such a double-edged sword. It’s an iconic sapphic aesthetic I see with other women, but then I put them on and I look way more butch than they do. Or maybe that’s just dysphoria talking idk. 😅

      But yes flannels are great for boymoding.