started a new job recently and im boymoding at work atm. i was expecting it to be cold because most offices ive been in are really cold, but its actually pretty warm. this is a problem because my boobs are getting big enough to be visible under most shirts so ive been wearing a tight bralet, a tshirt, and a hoodie but its too hot so im sitting here sweating wishing i could take off this hoodie but not wanting my coworkers to notice my boobs 😐

anybody have some advice on how to stay cool? im worried im just doomed to suffer or come out at work.

  • Maeve@kbin.earth
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    18 days ago

    If I may butt in? White bras of any sort just glare through light and white colors. Champagne or light blush do better, but mostly champagne. A champagne bra with a white undershirt and whatever overshirt may work?

    • Hildegard (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      18 days ago

      Yes, match the underwear to your skin tone if you want it to be invisible. That’s why most undergarments are available in some sort of medium tan/pink/brown. Even if you can’t match the color, matching the value can often be enough. A grey will almost always be less visible than white or black.