Awwwwww no am i embarassing you in front of the cissies?#
To clarify, i haven’t been on reddit in about 4 years or so and i’ve never set foot into r/MtF because it was obvious at first sight it’s full of truscums like basically all trans subs on reddit.
I kinda am just a stereotype on two legs. Can’t help it, sorry
But to be more serious: I had suppressed my sexuality for a very long time. My first memory of experiencing dysphoria, which was at 4, was related to the one single fetish I have and it took 25 years until I finally managed to be at ease with something that I should’ve never been ashamed of in the first place. I fully understand the fear of being judged by cis supremacists and branded as perverts for being openly kinky, but honestly, overcoming your own self-hatred and insecurities to finally being able to enjoy the things you were always dreaming of enjoying is a very beautiful thing that even asexual trans peeps can hopefully appreciate
I don’t have an issue with you being like that or you writing that here, sry if it came across like that.
Like I’m kinky and chronically online myself, OFC in a different form and with different interest (potato potato tho).
But I am not defined by that, it’s not at the core of my being.
And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here…
To me it didn’t come across like that at all. I fully understood what you wanted to say, which is why I told you my little story.
And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here…
It doesn’t define me either. I’m just sick right now and wanted to do a little silly posting, like I always do. Humour makes my life a lot more bearable and EatMoreMacroplastics’ comment did make me laugh quite a bit. That doesn’t mean that I let this stereotype define me, it just means that I find it funny, especially since it’s true to a degree
As if trans people are responsible for harmful stereotypes and not transphobes. That’s what i mean when i say that you sound like an assimilationist loser, you’re playing the respectability politics game way too hard.
Please don’t perpetuate the transphobic stereotype
the hateful and cruel stereotype that transfems have fun sex
I did not fight to get to where I am to have underwhelming sex tyvm
“Please be a good little assimilationist without kinks” is kinda cringe tbh.
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Where did I even remotely say that?
Fucking 🤡
(HYG for your smart-assery tho: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/comment/28494754)
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is certified cyclejerk r/MtF shit
Awwwwww no am i embarassing you in front of the cissies?#
To clarify, i haven’t been on reddit in about 4 years or so and i’ve never set foot into r/MtF because it was obvious at first sight it’s full of truscums like basically all trans subs on reddit.
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OH WAIT now i remember you, you’re that stupid trot who admins the 4tran comms on dbzer0. Go fuck your transmed ass you brainwormed piece of terfshit.
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I kinda am just a stereotype on two legs. Can’t help it, sorry
But to be more serious: I had suppressed my sexuality for a very long time. My first memory of experiencing dysphoria, which was at 4, was related to the one single fetish I have and it took 25 years until I finally managed to be at ease with something that I should’ve never been ashamed of in the first place. I fully understand the fear of being judged by cis supremacists and branded as perverts for being openly kinky, but honestly, overcoming your own self-hatred and insecurities to finally being able to enjoy the things you were always dreaming of enjoying is a very beautiful thing that even asexual trans peeps can hopefully appreciate
I don’t have an issue with you being like that or you writing that here, sry if it came across like that.
Like I’m kinky and chronically online myself, OFC in a different form and with different interest (potato potato tho).
But I am not defined by that, it’s not at the core of my being.
And I will not let myself and other trans women be defined by that, which is what I take issue with here…
To me it didn’t come across like that at all. I fully understood what you wanted to say, which is why I told you my little story.
It doesn’t define me either. I’m just sick right now and wanted to do a little silly posting, like I always do. Humour makes my life a lot more bearable and EatMoreMacroplastics’ comment did make me laugh quite a bit. That doesn’t mean that I let this stereotype define me, it just means that I find it funny, especially since it’s true to a degree
silly posting is fine and fun, I just hate that generalization :|
especially since it feeds into harmful stereotypes
As if trans people are responsible for harmful stereotypes and not transphobes. That’s what i mean when i say that you sound like an assimilationist loser, you’re playing the respectability politics game way too hard.