She is so great. I only talk with her online but she really lifts me up, the way she adores and praises my body are so affirming. I feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world right now.
She is also so sexy for practicing good consent. Like she knew that I had something in me but never pushed me. Fuck! consent is so sexy! (⸝⸝๑﹏๑⸝⸝)
yayyyy! I’m so happy for you :3
online
This ends terribly for everyone I knew who did this.
How so
I met my wife online and I think it was good for both of us. We have our share of relationship trouble, but that’s more to do with pre-existing mental issues (plus differences that any couple would have).
Hot, especially with informed consent.
I miss that feeling of guiding.
Hell yeah, similar experience for me recently and it’s amazing.
So happy for you too!!
oh heck yeah!!
Me too! I’m happy for you! I’m counting down the days until her next visit, since we can only see each other every month or so.
Her being online is plenty for me. Them taking me on IRL would probably break me in minutes… though I am corious about irl stuff too… Happy for you nonetheless though!
That’s the fun of it! She’s literally texting me right now about her plans when she visits next.
lol where do you get a dom?
Kink club/party/con, feeld, fetlife. Subcultures like furry (yay) and rationalism (boo) also have a ton of overlap.
Kink cons don’t exist, stop lying to me, lol. We’re not on this planet you hail from. You may as well be saying, “yeah, just go to your local dom adoption center an pick out one you like, that simple.”
You what?
Here’s a place to start looking, if you want it you can find it.
What? I went to 3 this last year.
There are people who don’t know about kink cons? Next you’re gonna say there aren’t monthly bdsm meetups in basically any metro area
That genuinely sounds satirical to me.
It’s not, there’s a website called fetlife where you can check the events tab and you’ll see a bunch of stuff and even filter it to your area. You’ll likely find play parties (basically an open to the public event where people can do bdsm), munches (bunch of kinky people grab dinner, usually considered the best place to start), bar meetups, etc. I used to run a monthly event myself and I met my wife at a dungeon.
Assuming you aren’t rural or in a small town in the middle of nowhere (country dependent) you likely have at least one localish bar that the kink community knows is a good place to meet up, if not even an outright leather bar.
I am in a city and I’ve known several people who seemed like they would have done stuff like this, but they never gave any indication that there was such places. I was just poking fun. I don’t want to visit any “dungeons.”
Had a friend who was a sub, he found her through some petplay discord servers I guess(not my world). She once involved me in a task for that little puppy and we just kept contact cause we liked talking to each other. A few days ago I had some issues I wanted to talk to her about which were kink related… Then she asked if I d want her to dom me and I thought about it for a few days and here we are
That’s almost one-for-one the story of how two of my friends got cyberabused.
For people who aren’t into this, it makes little sense. I think we’re both part of that group.
Just hope that OP knows what they’re getting themselves into.
- Step 1: Wife someone up
- Step 2: Ask her nicely to domme you
- Step 3: This time, really beg for it. Make her feel like a goddess.
- Step 4: Get dommed
Yes mistress! ❤️
Get into a relationship with someone and ask.
I found mine through the local kink community where I lived at the time
I somehow stumbled upon a true pro. Like actually. Idk how i got lucky like this.
Thats nice to hear. I feel very similar. They are so good to me
Congrats a good domme is hard to find but awesome
thanks!







