I’ll start, I missed the outdoor cats struggle session so i don’t know what its deal was except a vague idea that outdoor cats were bad, so I’ve let my two cats stay being outdoor cats because I feel bad locking them inside, like I want to give them some experience of freedom to go where they please so they can live more fulfilling lives

Edit: also kruschev is imo a lot better than most hexbear users give him credit for

  • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    My dad said this lol. But my mom was a crystal loving weirdo hippie at the time and refused to allow it, and thank god for that.

    (I feel almost bad posting this because 99/100 times my dad was the better parent.)

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      1 year ago

      My dad said this lol. But my mom was a crystal loving weirdo hippie at the time and refused to allow it, and thank god for that.

      It’s kind of spooky that they somehow told you or you found out how close you came to an unnecessary surgery you didn’t ask for and you didn’t want.

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        1 year ago

        Never really thought about it, but you’re right. I think its because I accidentally saw my dad’s dick once and saw his lack of foreskin and asked my mom about it or something? Can’t remember.

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          I can’t even fully get down to why the statement “make the baby look like the old man” creeps me out so much. The pathology of it is weird even if no direct sexual connotations are made.