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  • Grimreaper@sopuli.xyzOPtoDating@lemmy.worldNever ever date a retail worker
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    9 days ago

    You said you don’t talk to people you’re not attracted to.

    Yeah cause what’s the point? What do I get out of it?

    " Non-terrible people don’t decide whether to talk to someone solely based on attraction."

    The person I was responding to said, “You aren’t mature enough to ask a retail worker out,” which is weird, creepy and kind of predatory considering they don’t know me and have never met me…

    But sure, I’m the “terrible person”.





  • When a parent denies their underage child, with a brain that is still developing, hard drugs I think that is appropriate parenting

    I am “pro-choice” with anything as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else (but you). From my skin inwards is my total jurisdiction; it was JONATHAN’S BODY. Not Clark, not Lois. If Jon wants to inhale an alien space narcotic or snort cocaine, that should be his right.

    Again Clark and Lois violated Jonathan’s autonomy, and that was wrong, especially for Superman, who stands for “humans having free will”, and Lois Lane, a woman who worked her way up in a male-dominated environment and who fights for “truth and justice”.

    Also, it’s just bad writing because Superman should have better things to do than whine and complain about how his son, who doesn’t even have powers at the time, is taking an illegal drug. Big fucking whoop.










  • when Peter Parker said “I missed the part where that’s my problem”, that was meant to be a bad thing

    But it’s not a “bad thing”. Some things are objectively not your problem just because you CAN help someone in need doesn’t mean you HAVE to, and it doesn’t make you a “bad person”.

    Let’s be real: most people don’t help others in need even when they are able to. People who donate to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital or volunteer with homeless people do so for performative reasons or to just look good in front of someone; in the end, they are doing so for their own self-interest.













  • Good on you for becoming self aware

    I’m always self-aware and can read body language, and I don’t take rejection very personally; I just walk away. If I continue going to this Walmart, I’ll wave to her, but I probably won’t speak to her unless she initiates it.

    That and I try to talk to women like I would literally anyone else. Granted, I’m obviously more nervous when I talk to a woman I’m attracted to, but I don’t use pickup lines or “play the game”; I usually talk to them like a normal person.