• The point of “gifted child to adult burnout pipeline” was never to say “i had so much potential”, it was “people placed absurd and crushing expectations on me because they did not get that i wasn’t ‘gifted’, i just had normal hyperfixations”. This is completely missing the point of the meme, neurotypical ass bs.

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      Love to have grown up in the era of “ADHD isn’t real” so teachers could just berate me for being bored in class all the time

      Love to be an adult during the era of “getting an AuDHD diagnosis will get you put on a registry and probably result in custody of your child being taken away” as a follow-up

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      But isn’t that the point of the “could’ve gone pro” comparison? Those athletes most likely weren’t pro-caliber either, they just had those expectations forced on them because they happened to be the ringer compared to the rest of their high school. But that was enough for the adults looking to live vicariously to push them to wreck their bodies young.

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        Yeah like kids going into the pro scene early and get that increase load that their body isn’t gonna be accustomed to and get injured at a critical time of their athletic development

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        Most of the so-called gifted kids aren’t asserting that they were geniuses, but the jocks in this circumstance definitely are saying they could have gone pro. At least, that’s the received cultural understanding from the latter meme, since they are usually the only ones still talking about it. “I could have been a contender,” etc.