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    20 days ago

    Just saw a FB post from our local warming station that activates when it gets cold out for the unhoused to go to to be safe from last night. My ex was in one of the photos. She kicked me out and made me homeless for 2 months, so the irony isn’t lost. Just not sure how I should feel about it. She’s helping people, but I used to think she did this stuff out of the kindness of her heart and now I can’t help but think she only does it because she’s religious and wants “Jesus points” as my brain has officially dubbed it. That’s all. Idk where else I should post this so y’all get it. Hope everyone is doing their best while we wrap up this shitty year.