My guilt comes from a variety of sources: lesbians saying that they don’t care about size (which is perfectly valid), women with big bosoms complaining about the pains that they cause (also valid), and scientists finding a correlation between misogynistic boys and a preference for enormous knockers. I’ve even read that some girls have ended their lives over dissatisfaction with their sizes. Basically, I have this impression that a preference for massive mammaries is something that only ‘trashy straight boys’ have, therefore I feel guilty by association.
That said, I try not to be a jerk either: I don’t shun or mistreat ladies for having small breasts, and I wouldn’t fight tooth and nail to prevent somebody from getting a reduction either. As long as she is happier with her smaller breasts, that’s great! I’m happy for her! And I don’t mind being friends with somebody who has small breasts either! So I like to think that I am not that shallow of a person. Also, maybe this is usual but I tend to associate big boobs with power and I would much rather be dominated by huge honkers than vice versa.
None of this erases my guilt, though.
Is my preference a problem that I should try to fix or am I worrying too much?
Small boob haver here, don’t worry about it. We all have our preferences. As long as you aren’t making anyone feel worse about it, you do you. I’ve definitely gotten shamed for my size, often inadvertently, and it really doesn’t feel good. That being said, I also prefer larger boobs and I’m very happy that my girlfriend is on the bigger side. Just be respectful and don’t let casual comments hurt anyone who might have insecurities, regardless of their size.