• LeninWeave [none/use name, any]@hexbear.net
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        Him saying the slur is not evidence of his racism. The disability does not force him to vocalize things he subconsciously thinks, it forces him to vocalize things he finds abhorrent and wrong. This is also why he’s not calling white people “slurs” as some people have mentioned, because he presumably doesn’t think those are taboo because anti-white racism isn’t real (correct).

        Now, the harm that is done to the black people who were on the receiving end is of course still real. But if this discussion starts with “why should being disabled cancel out being racist” it’s fundamentally missing the point of one half of the equation (ableism and disability) and it’s not going to accomplish anything.

        I also find it extremely troubling that the broadcaster who got to farm controversy by inflicting these slurs on millions of black people while scapegoating disabled people and censoring “free Palestine” is now completely getting away with that while the discourse turns into a war between disabled people and black people, which are of course not at all mutually exclusive categories.

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        Knowing a word is racist, harmful, and inappropriate does not make you a racist. The very same reasons we find it offensive are the reasons he shouted it.

        Say someone’s colostomy bag broke in public. It smells like shit, nobody likes the smell of shit, the person with the colostomy bag probably doesn’t like the smell of shit either. Would you find it appropriate to say “this person loves the smell of shit, they intended to make us all smell their shit?”

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          them having colostomy bag breaking in public is not similar to calling people slurs, one is targeted one is public, a better example is if a person with that got on a bus knowing they have it and stood infront of a poc, knowing there’s a possibility they’ll do it on them, even though they don’t have control about that factor they had control over other factors in the situation and should still be held accountable.

          Also there’s people who like the smell of shit, and there’s probably SOME people with that disorder who like the smell of shit, having a didability doesn’t stop you from having a kink, or being racist. in that same way having tourettes doesn’t cancel out being racist.

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            The correlation is having a disability that can make other people uncomfortable.

            Yeah, you’re right, people with disabilities should not be allowed in public…/s

            Are you actually saying this person with Tourette’s “might” have a kink for calling people slurs? Lmao that is so ableist

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              I find it sad that so many people are taking this position when the whole point of Davidson’s film was to show the ostracisation he has faced from society because of his neurodivergence.

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            them having colostomy bag breaking in public is not similar to calling people slurs,

            Yes it is, in that it’s an unpleasant thing no one would like to have to deal with and which happened because of a disability and through no one’s fault.

            If you call someone a slur for no reason, you’re an asshole. If you call someone a slur because of your disability which makes it impossible not to do that, you’re just trying to exist in this fucking world.

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              The difference is the individual has to deal with the colostomy bag, the ones who have to deal with the slurs are Black people not the one shouting them

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                The Tourettes guy lives with constant tics, movement and speech constantly being interrupted. No way of being sure you’ll get your sentence out, no way of being sure you won’t say something abhorrent. Tourettes fucking sucks to have.
                You’re acting like a south park character. “Oh he gets to say all sorts of taboo stuff!”

                And in case you didn’t notice, the guy with Tourettes has to deal with it too.

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                  At the end of the day, a whole lot of Black people, from the actors on stage to Black members of the audience to Black viewers watching the broadcast, have to hear some white dude say the n-word. What actions have been taken to address the very real harm caused by this? This thread and the previous thread that got locked have said much to explain why the white dude said the n-word. But the fundamental gap of understanding between the POC users and the white users here is that his intent doesn’t matter an iota. The fact that he said it is already enough.

                  If you’re not convinced, notice how I used the term “n-word” even though I’m using the word in a completely clinical non-racist context. “John Davidson said the n-word during this year’s BAFTA” is a completely neutral sentence reporting something that happened, but it would be grossly inappropriate to spell out the word and go, “uh aktually, I’m not being racist because I’m just reporting what actually happened.” The word is censored and rightfully so. So, the discussions about Tourettes, while enlightening, is ultimately not very relevant. He as a white man said the n-word in front of many Black people and that is good enough for those Black people to rightfully demand an apology and restitution from him, BAFTA, and the BBC.

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                    The tourettes is integral to the discussion, because that is why he said it. There was no intent behind the word. Not acknowledging that is akin to not acknowledging that the word is hurtful and the way the broadcaster has handled it is harmful.

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                  Intent does not erase impact. Disability explains occurrence, not institutional failure

                  Tourettes sucks, doesn’t change the fact slurs caused harm

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                My point was that the disabled individual is not always in control of their disability, I never meant to say Black people should just deal with it.

                I don’t think either side of this argument (on this site, at least) should feel or be made to feel like they are defending an ableist or racist viewpoint when they are defending quite the opposite.

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        He has a form of Tourette’s that literally forces you to say the worst possible thing in that moment. He has called the Queen the C-word to her face and said that he has a bomb in a public crowd.

        Obviously the two people he said the word to (and every black person who saw the event because the BBC care too much about views to censor the incident apparently) have the right to be upset that he called them the word, I’m not disputing that at all. But this form of Tourette’s is essentially like the intrusive thoughts some people with OCD get which is in no way representative of them as a person.

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          (and every black people who saw the event because the BBC care too much about views to censor the incident apparently)

          I am convinced they did this intentionally to stir up controversy and distract from the censoring of pro-Palestine activism at the expense of both black and disabled people.

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          Yeah, but their inversion is representative of them as a person: intrusive thoughts are a reinforcement mechanism; your brain telling you what’s inappropriate. This form of Tourette’s makes you act on your (verbal) intrusive thoughts.

          This means the slurs indicate that he’s not a racist. A racist with this form of Tourette’s would not consider slurs the epitome of inappropriate behavior.