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Cake day: July 17th, 2023

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  • RavindraNemandito196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Us? Rule
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    2 days ago

    Miisha, you are NOT repulsive. You are really, genuinely, emphatically beautiful. And i dont just mean that in an “everyone is beautiful” way. I mean you are a catch. A hottie! An absolute babe! I really do understand how impossible it seems to change your self image, but i found that when i forced myself to stop saying self deprecating stuff, it really helped to change the way i think. I hope you can come to see yourself in the way the rest of us see you. As a beautiful, funny, and unstoppably horny woman.




  • I definitely think its a flexibility thing, not an anatomical difference. Practice makes perfect. I will say, a little arch goes a long way from the perspective of the person topping you. Its more about the angle it puts your butt at than anything IMO. The image you linked looks super uncomfortable and i dont think it would be pleasant for you to actually have sex in that position. Arch all you want, i do it too, but the ideal position is way less extreme than that example.


  • I say you should come out to your sister. Its hard, its never going to be a zero risk decision. If you want to have a relationship with your sister and your nephew, the best way to do that is by starting with a foundation of honesty, openness and courage. You seem to want to be a good influence on your nephew, and this is an opportunity to demonstrate courage and authenticity to him. If he is autistic, having an aunt as a role model who lives exactly the way she knows is right for her regardless of what society wants and expects from her could be really important for him! I believe in you. I say take the chance of rejection. Come out to your sister.







  • RavindraNemanditoAutism@lemmy.world•Good point
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    3 months ago

    Yeah… no. Everyone else is just as thinking and conscious as you are. I promise. You sound like Elon Musk talking about “npcs”. They may not think about all the same things as you, in all the same ways as you, but they are full humans with the same agency as you. We can’t go around dehumanizing people.