I used to. But it gets in the way. I work on things that can have angry electrons. 12v 50A. 48V 100A and sometimes 500v to 5000v. I like my finger more than any pretentious or misguided thinking about a piece of metal meaning anything. I keep mine somewhere in clean part of a shelve at home I use it for when we go out together. I wouldn’t want someone there think I’m up for grabs or something.
I bought a bunch of silicone rings because I’m a cheap bitch who eloped and works in factories. At some point I will probably buy a fancier ring, but I’ve got basically no sense of style for jewelry. And no I wear it to work and generally when I’m out, but not really when I’m at home. I also have a piercing that symbolizes my relationship with my wife and I only remove that when medically necessary
Yes, I wear it except when handling raw meat or in the shower.
Its not an expensive ring. I think it was like $20. It is the second ring because the first one wore out and broke.
Yes and I always wear it all the time except when I make pizza
except when I make pizza
Man, I thought I was up on the current slang, but this one is new to me!
Yeah I got a platinum ring that felt pricey but it was easily stretched half a size at a jeweler for free and it should be easy to cut if I ever get in a stuck situation. It did irritate my skin at first when water got trapped in there but I take it off for showers/washing dishes now.
On a serious note, I do like it and I love that it gets worn and has scratches. I could polish it up but looking forward to being old and seeing physical wear marks of having a long marriage.
My wife and I made our own wedding rings from wood. We don’t wear them since they are fairly fragile.
Yeah, my wedding ring is a really nice black-stained wood with a malachite band, but I noticed it was getting scratched from daily wear, so I wear a silicone workout ring day to day. I bust out the real one for special occasions.
Have one (two), never wear it.
I found out the hard way that I was allergic to something in my first one. It was tungsten carbide and I think that’s sometimes bound with cobalt or nickel which some people are allergic to. Luckily, I got it off before my finger swelled too much… reminder that super strong metals are not a good idea for rings. I was young, dumb, and thought “tungsten carbide = cool” without thinking all the way through it.
After that, I made a replacement but I’m a code monkey with very thin fingers and it was constantly annoying me by moving around so I took it off and never put it back on. If silicone rings had been readily available back then I might’ve switched to one of those and stuck with it since they don’t move.
The spouse wears their band all the time and has never expressed annoyance about me not wearing mine… it’s been about 25 years.
I do have a wedding ring with some inscription inside. Now my sausage hands grew so my wife bought me a cheap Amazon ring to fit. It’s for her peace of mind.
My skin is an asshole and the ring didn’t help. After some days it started itching and peeling and I just wore it on special occasions afterwards.
We’re divorced now, but I kept it out in the open, because it reminds me of the good times we had together. And we had a lot.
Neither of us do. We stopped after the first year or so since neither of us like rings.
Same here. It was just annoying
We have rings but we don’t wear them all the time; I can’t stand wearing it whilst in the shower or going to the gym.
Married in '91. Wore mine for the first few years, then took it off on a jobsite to wash my hands, left it on the sideboard of the sink and it was taken. No big deal, it was made out of a 10 dollar length of silver. Eh. My husband lost his a few years later, so we decided to not bother to replace them.
The metal isn’t what’s kept us together for 35 years…
as a woman (and maybe this is more of a thing in the South), I find it’s important to wear a ring to signal to men that I’m not available (not that this is like foolproof, there are men who will still transgress those boundaries, but … it feels like a kind of social shield for sure)
and it is also important to wear both the engagement and the wedding ring together - conservative culture is weirdly catty about that
Yeah, I’m not the kind of woman that men would hit up on (too butch…) and now of course I’m old and weathered and other than the really old guys that appreciate someone that can tune up their own car (I have had men decades older than I am, come up to me and shake my hand when working on the car in the driveway… go figure!) no one looks twice at me. What I wear also doesn’t help. LOL!
The fact that I know you mean the South of the United States of America exactly because you did not say the country annoys me so much. Sorry for the off topic rant.
ah good point, I edited it to add the country. It’s true there is a US-centrism both in the mindsets of Americans, but also online in general (at least in English speaking spaces), so it does become a kind of “default place” that way
yay imperialism 🫠
Yup. All day, every day.
Same. Only take mine off if I’m washing my hands and need to dry under it.
Mine doesn’t even come off for that. You’d think it would get nasty under there not being dried properly, but it’s been about (two wives with a gap between - can’t be bothered working out the exact time) 35 years and zero problems.
I hate wearing anything on my hands, gloves, rings, watches, etc. Also, I worked with tools a lot. So, I didn’t wear mine most of the time, only during special occasions. My wife was the same.
Actually, my wife preferred I didn’t wear my ring, because I got hit on more when I had it on. She saw it happen.
Yes, and yes.
At this point my wedding ring feels like a part of me. When I take it off and especially if I hand it to someday else that feels weird and alarming.
