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Thank you this was very informative! I probably still want to go with full monotherapy, I dont want to fuck something up with a partial one. But I wonder for how long I can boymod, that would definitely make my life easier; considering I already get she/her’d lol, I could boymod in risky situations as usual
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Partial monotherapy wouldn’t fuck anything up. But if you want to go full that’s perfectly valid and I fully support your descision. Just remember to take care of your safety.
It’s about the valley in between. If people gender you fully as a boy, or as a girl they won’t think anything. If you’re seen as somewhat in between that could incite negative reactions. If you girlmod, go all the way and make sure to hide your Adam’s apple (wearing headphones/scarves around your neck works for this lol), change your mannerisms and voices, etc. But that’s hard to do right the first try.
As for boymoding on E, it can work for quite a while actually. But you have to be careful to manage your emotional state around your family or else they could think somethings up.